Question for Doms if permitted

[QuietMaster]

My friend claims that in order for Sir to understand what its like to be a Dom, he needs to spend time as a sub

.......I TOTALLY dont think thats right

....Is it?????

A Master/Dom first needs to master/control himself before being a Master for other(s).

Of course, in the process which is a continuum, he needs to understand the quiddity of the responsibles of a Master.

[voxelectronica]

A Master/Dom first needs to master/control himself before being a Master for other(s).

Of course, in the process which is a continuum, he needs to understand the quiddity of the responsibles of a Master.

I think this was the one single issue that pushed me to Dom. I as a sub could not find a Dom that I believed had enough control. It's boring. It's frustrating. Goals falling at the way side for the rogue misc session. Doms forgetting there was a mutual agreement. That I too was to gain something from the arrangement.

As a Dom is it hard to keep this all straight? To ignore that throbbing between my legs when a sub is doing their job of being a good slut? yes it's tough. It's hard as hell. It can be torture sometimes.... but it's worth it.

I think I developed the patience and the backbone for this by being a sub.

Do I think the OP's friend is right? nope. I do however understand were his misinformation is developing from.