Quote Originally Posted by leo9 View Post
I happen to be able to switch, and I feel that the time I've spent on the sharp end of the whip has given me a better understanding of where my subs are coming from. But that's what works for me, and I'd never turn it into a rule that everyone had to follow.
Ditto here,

I would simply add that 'thinking its wrong' can be incorrect, because we are all different, not in our search for pleasure, but so different in our tastes to find these pleasures.

Being a Sub before becoming a Dom, can provide some insight, it can have it's negative 'touch' (such as not being able to do something to a sub because of previous experiences) but being a sub or a Dom, is a mental state, you ARE a sub or a Dom (for me at least its the way it works, everyone is different). I enjoy pleasure and pain as a sub as much as I enjoy dishing out pleasure and pain as a Dom, neither is exclusive to the other.

its a large world and we are simply enjoying ourselves in the many perverted ways we can come up with