The post of all posts for us that are new... I feel like finding someone in this world is the untimate game of chicken and egg... Thank you for the great post and I look forward to reading the replies. For me, I am innately submissive to some degree and I have become aware that my sublte and blatant sub behaviors bring out some dominating traits in certain people in my life. However, I will be silent now as I haven't explored this much more then in my own mind. GREAT post!! Thanks!!