well i hope you don't feel that way about my responses to you. being a seeker myself, i would hate to feel unwelcome. but i would probably not make those i sought information from feel challenged or pushed in any way.
if responses were filled with emotion it is because (speaking only for myself), your submission or Dominance is WHO YOU ARE, and when someone appears to be dissecting you or alluding to incorrect or even sinister motivation on your part, it does tend to make you close off a little...