surrogate sub

[Arria]

@ voxelectronica: Having a Caesarean section would not be an option for you?

I did practical studies with midwives for 6 weeks and saw 38 children born, two of them Caesarean sections. One was an emergency, and the other was planned, because it was known she could not survive a normal birth, hence the section was planned and done. It all went well.

As for the question itself: I might be old-fashioned, but having a child should imho not have to do anything with any purely BDSM issue. The idea horrifies me.
What if the couple breaks up? "Sorry, I only gave birth to you because my Dom wanted it, now he´s gone, and I don´t want you anymore, either?"

*shudders*

A child should be born to people who love each other, or to someone who wants it (even if the partnership does not work out in the long run).
The idea of using pregnancy as an instrument of power makes my flesh crawl.

[voxelectronica]

@ voxelectronica: Having a Caesarean section would not be an option for you?

I can have one. I have sever risk of premature labor and delivering naturally would kill me.

As for the question itself: I might be old-fashioned, but having a child should imho not have to do anything with any purely BDSM issue. The idea horrifies me.
What if the couple breaks up? "Sorry, I only gave birth to you because my Dom wanted it, now he´s gone, and I don´t want you anymore, either?"

What if any couple breaks up? I either have poorly represented the idea here or it's not being caught on to. Me as Dominant my partner as Dominant sub as surrogate. To my knowledge surrogate parents play next to NO role in a child's development outside of the womb.

A child should be born to people who love each other, or to someone who wants it (even if the partnership does not work out in the long run).

Well that isn't the case in surrogate pregnancies. The child is born to someone who is contracted to have said child and then given to it's (often) biological parents.

The idea of using pregnancy as an instrument of power makes my flesh crawl.

Which it isn't actually not in this scenario. I'm sorry if that wasn't clear in the statement on not forcing someone to be a surrogate.

I'm actually really puzzled by the responses.