Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post


...I find real-life experiences to be far superior to anything I could imagine online.

I like what you said there jeanne.

I do not rule out online relationships only becuase i know so many people that have made it work. Found there other half on the internet (vanilla or not) and then got married to them, still together and happy as fricken flies on shit

That being said, ive had a few online relationships, one worked out great until he went psycho on me. Thats besides the point. Either way it can work out, if there is open communication and understanding on both ends.

I just recently (within the last two months) ventured offline and had some real BDSM expierences. Like jeanne said, online CANNOT compare to real life, period. It just cant, its a fact. Kissing a man or woman in real life is always going to be better then kissing, say the air, or computer screen. Or getting a beating from your Master is better then giving it to yourself. That being said, does it mean that people that are in online relationships are getting the shitty end of the stick? No not at all. Being online has its advantages. Just becuase you two cant be with each other physically doenst mean you arnt growing and learning about each other.

I in fact found the one i am with right now (in real life) off this library, im not saying we were online lovers at first but you can find love online. Although i am pretty sure that wasnt your main question.

My main deal with online relationships is how do you know they are doing as you ask? Pictures, web cam? What if they dont have that, how do you know your even talking to the said human? How do you know that he/she doesnt have ten more subs on the side? This is all here nor there.

If it makes you happy it cant be that bad.