Physical strength

[kaerose13]

Same here. For some reason tickling puts my mind into complete overload, even in non-sub/Dom situations. To me personally tickling would be 100% non-consensual and abusive.

i'm exactly the same with that too, that is the strongest limit i have. (i've actually flipped out and given normal friends bloody noses for tickling me, i didn't mean too, its just my instinctual reaction to tickling).


anyways, for me it is 100% necessary for somebody to be physically stronger than me, or at least able to beat me in a fight, for me to submit. for as small as i am, 5'4'' and 110lbs, i am extreemly strong and a decent fighter. i need the thought that He could force me to obey even though he never would. the possibility of danger is completely necessary for me. if i know that i could overpower somebody it doesn't require any trust for me to submit. also, i like to fight back, if i end that fight on top i'm no longer interested in submitting.

from reading this thread its obvious that many people disagree, but for me the physical strength is definitely a requirement.

[damyanti]

i need the thought that He could force me to obey even though he never would.

This really nailed it for me. Thank you for putting it into words so nicely Kaerose.

if i know that i could overpower somebody it doesn't require any trust for me to submit. also, i like to fight back, if i end that fight on top i'm no longer interested in submitting.

That is exactly from where my question came from.