An interesting question arose in a conversation I had today.

Can a physically inferior partner ever be truly dominant?

If the sub is only choosing to submit, but can say no just like that...the Dom has no physical strength to overpower him/her...

Who is truly the dominant force here? If there is an underlying sense (real or not) that the submissive partner is only indulging the dominant, but can turn the table at his/hers convenience?

And the question that arises from this is...how or how much do you use your physical strength to your advantage and or as your dominance tool?

Sorry, I am just rambling and probably making a disaster of explaining this...but I would love to hear what you think.