I apologize if you felt I was directing my comments at you angela, I was not. I believe that there is a certain amount of risk in all that we do and sometimes that is the 'hit.'

But to blanketly state that "everything we do is consensual" is irresponsible and flat wrong. There ARE those that are preying on women (and men) and especially those women (and men) that are willing to take a little extra risk.

And this is a BDSM site that had a long history of being welcoming to all of those that are interested in finding out more about the lifestyle. To get petulant and snippy and, yes, superior, as SilverWolf did was unnecessary and rude. THAT is where my comments were directed, not in your direction.

I think your question was more than valid.