I have just used the link and read the report of the charge of rape. Ok I will be the first to admit that there are a lot of strange kinks in BDSM, and I have never classed myself as naive in any way. I know that there are women and girls that like rough sex, there are those that like being used, and I expect there are the same amount of men, and most of them if not all are in the community.

But even I am surprised at the stupidity of these two men, and both deserve all that is coming their way in the way of punishment. Stipe for his blatant disrespect of the woman’s personnel safety well being, and McDowell for his utter stupidity for not doing his homework. Stipe by soliciting a person on a chat line to carry out this rape without vetting him first, and he should be put away for life because he is more dangerous than McDowell that carried out the rape. Let’s for instance say the woman fought hard, because she clearly knew nothing about the set up, and the knife that McDowell was holding cut her jugular, we would not even be talking about this atrocity.

I say this with all respect to you charliegirlnaked, if it had been you that had been set up, by say an ex Dom/Domme, and instead of a knife held in the man’s hand, he was full of aids, would you still be eager to show sympathy towards the rapist? Rape I believe in the BDSM is done in controlled play, this was neither controlled nor was it play.

Lock both up and throw the key away just for their arrogance and stupidity.

Respects ian 2411