craigslist bdsm rape scandal

[IAN 2411]

As for not calling this BDSM... I can understand why it is a bad idea to link ourselves to this but the truth is the 'rapist' was someone who had a kink for rape which, while at the extreme end of BDSM, is still within the remit

What if you were equally fooled into believing that someone else wanted whatever kink you enjoyed?

What stops it from happening more often are the SSC and RACK rules and the fact that we take care to make sure of ourselves before proceeding. I think we need to take this as a cautionary tale and an example as to why we should be careful...

Fetishdj, I can see what you’re talking about, but you’re talking as a member of the community, not as a member of the vanilla world. The two men were complete morons, both out of touch with reality, so he might have a kink for rape that does not make what he has done more acceptable. I have a kink about being whipped that I find both erotic and fearsome, and if a person told me there was a woman down the street that wanted to whip someone’s back. With no hesitation, I would tell him to go down there himself and help her out. This had nothing to do with BDSM it is straight forward rape and conspiracy to rape. I don’t think that anyone with only half the brain power of these two men, would be not fooled, but coaxed into carrying out such a heinous real life crime as rape. The thing that would stop most people from doing this; is their quality of morality and intelligence; and as for a cautionary tale and example, and I do know there was no malicious intent in that remark. I feel that it would be insulting for anyone to think that a member of the community would be duped in this way.

Regards ian2411

If it were up to me they would both be raped in similar torturous fashion and then fully castrated with a dull knife before being put to death.

You never by any chance have ancestors that worked in the Tower of London in the reign of Prince John? Just a thought.

REGARDS IAN 2411