Well this has changed a bit because on Sunday I sat down with him and we had a really long talk and we understand each other a lot better. I think he understand what I am ok with and that he was crossing a lot of lines. Also he knows my feistyness would easily come out and bite him if he doesn't back off and such... yup yup.... I did know what was right for me I just need to make sure I wasn't completely insane I guess....