I feel stuck and I really do not know what to do… I’m pretty new to all of this and I some how got stuck in a triangle of doom… ok not of doom but yea… it started a couple weeks ago I met a man and we decided to take things farther. Well this was all fine until his slave found out (who I did not even know existed). Well she was obviously hurt but things got worked out and now the three of us get together from time to time and she has become one of my best friends… recently he became a mentor of sorts and has been helps me sort through some things which normally would be fine but both his slave and I noticed hes started treating me differently… Hes been reaching out to control. I think his intentions are very different then what is ok by his slave. While I was talking to her we both came to the conclusion that in a sense he is trying to make me a sister… when she talked to him he says its all about teaching but I seriously doubt it. So now I feel extremely stuck. I care about them both and I know what she is ok with but I also know he is pushing boundaries… I do not know if anyone can even give me a hint of advice but I thought id throw it out there and see if anyone has any input… I have tried talking to him about it and he just says do not worry about her, he does not seem to understand that we both think that he is trying to make us into some sort of poly relationship. I mean it is obvious when he starts looking up and joining poly based groups… I trust him and he really has helped me but I feel he is pushing for things she will never be ok with. I do not know what I should do… : /