Quote Originally Posted by ian 2411 View Post
snip I feel that it would be insulting for anyone to think that a member of the community would be duped in this way.

Regards ian2411

Alas, 'members of this community' are no better and no worse than anybody else. In fact, that is shown by research, so it's official.

How many people hear what they yearn to hear? If you wanted something all your life, maybe you fall into the trap without thinking.

Honestly, if you get in touch with somebody is the first thought you have that it may be someone else from what they say who also happens to be planning a trap or a 3. person? What if you are a newbie?

Nothing can excuse his lack of checking his facts, but I'd stil say he raped out of a mistake and without intent, while the planner raped with intent.

If all the facts are as presented.