how is that possibley rape? you both made a choice to engage in sex

you both had a choice... you acted on the choice to have sex... that she lied about a contraceptive did not change the fact that you both acted on a choice to have sex... it was not instinct... neither one of you copulated because you HAD to and neither one of you forced the other. that you took her word for being protected was a mistake and i am just damn glad an unwanted child did not come of it

it was an awful thing she did... and i have heard of pregnancy being used to trap into marriage... thats horrible and immoral... but its not rape