Clearly (to me,) amber will refine her definition narrowly to conform with her choice of words.

Is it consent if a lie was used to obtain consent? That's like saying I offer you a drink, you consent to take it not knowing it's a rufie and the sex act that followed must not be rape. But I know you'll apply your definition narrowly. I'm not saying this isn't rape, but that your definition, which currently says it isn't rape, will no doubt change again.

Can't have a discussion if you can't even nail down your own definition.