Quote Originally Posted by rollsroycemk1 View Post
I have just found my vanilla wife likes pussy slapped,anal and rough sex.Can I turn her on enough to admit she likes BSDm life style or even acknowledge her desire for more?
I think it's a pretty big leap from having my pussy slapped during rough sex to admitting that I like a 'BDSM lifestyle', whatever that may imply. As far as I know, there are much more women who like rough sex than men would believe. Most of them would just laugh into your face/kick your groin/walk away if you asked them to kneel before you, though.

But as has been said already, nothing short of communicating with your wife will tell.

Something else: In my opinion 'admit' is not a very good word in this context. 'Admit' more or less implies that you think she's done something wrong, or held something back from you she shouldn't have. Dunno whether that's what you feel, but if it's the case it maybe isn't the best frame of mind to be in when you discuss it with her.