I appreciate you saying that, didn't take it as that though if I sounded for my post as I did. I will say as far as being able to spot us....i told my Master today actually that He looked at me as if He owned me right away. I had never practiced anything like bdsm before and He hadn't even spoken to me. Yet He knew, don't know if its something one can say why they know, but I would have to say that somehow I believe it can happen as I have seen it happen.