real vs. play punishment

[Dog's Lady]

One of his little jokes:
Masochist: Hit me, hurt me.
Sadist: No.
And that is sometimes his favorite form of punishment--just no. As for maintenance spankings, ah, what a lovely idea--but I am in Connecticut and he is in Florida (hence my multiple posts in the "your #1 fantasy in one sentence" thread--fantasies are about all I have right now.)

Thanks everyone, but especially denuseri for 'funishment'-great word-and to Ozme, who has posted answers to so many of my questions. I really appreciate all of you who take the time to help this newbie get better (hopefully) for her lover/Master. This site reminds me of the SCA in the way it welcomes people--you have all made me feel at home and, more importantly, less wrong for my kinks.

[Ozme52]

Thanks everyone, but especially denuseri for 'funishment'-great word-and to Ozme, who has posted answers to so many of my questions. I really appreciate all of you who take the time to help this newbie get better (hopefully) for her lover/Master. This site reminds me of the SCA in the way it welcomes people--you have all made me feel at home and, more importantly, less wrong for my kinks.

You're welcome.... and if you're indeed SCA, then you have a "vanilla" excuse to call me Sir to boot.