Hi, I am looking for someone to explore my submissive tendencies with. I have had experiences with a couple of women so far in my life that claimed to be dominant, but they were not very good at taking control and I found myself leading the scenes. I am very sensual, eager to please and I like being spanked (what is OTK spanking?). I like the idea of being totally controlled. It gives me a safe, warm feeling that I would really like to explore further.