When I first embrassed BDSM a very wise dom told me: "In this lifestyle you never stop learning." I now believe a good dominant is one who "never stops learning". I also believe:

Being a good dominant is not about constantly feeding your ego or superiority complex. Sexually submissive men and women are neither superior nor inferior, they've simply chosen different roles.

Being a dominant doesn't mean you have inherent control over every submissive you meet. You must work to gain their trust and respect.

If you have to run around telling everyone what a great dom you are, then maybe you're not. Let your deeds speak for you.

If you have to keep bragging and talking about how "experienced' you are, maybe you're past all the action, and talk is all you have left.

Being a 'r/t', verses a v/t, dom does not necessarily make you a better, or more knowlegeable, dominant. How you choose to express your dominance, and the kind of relationship you have with your submissive, is entirely your business and nobody else's.

And finally, fine, give yourself a title of nobility, but remember you will still need to earn respect just like everyone else does.