I have a question the I am sure some of you have experience with.

My wife is also my slave (BDSM). She submitted to me when we were dating, and our M/s relationship has flourished during the ten years of our marraige. I love this woman, and she is a marvelous slave. Anything is possible with her. Recently I have harboured thoughts of giving her to a friend of mine, letting him, on occasion, dominate, bind, torment, and have sex with her. I have told her of my thinking, and that I plan to do this. We talked about it, and she said she would submit and do what I wanted. She does not know who I want to give her to. I am keeping that secret for a while.

I know my friend is also a Dom. Him and his former wife (she was killed in a car wreck, with a damned drunk in the other car) had a similar relationshp (BDSM). He would be a good candidiate for this type of thing.

Since I have never done anything like this (letting someone else have her), I thought I might check in her, and learn what your experiences were in this area. Obviously, I don't want to ruin a good thing. I don't want to give her to a stranger, because of the obvious reasons.

Sir James