My husband and I are new to the lifestyle and really want to play, a lot! The problem is we have a full house. We are 36 and 34 years old and have 2 older children and his mother lives with us. Let me just say, the sound of a paddle hitting a bare bottom makes ALOT of noise! Can anyone recommend some fun play activities that are somewhat quiet (moaning is ok, they are used to that!)? Hotels are getting expensive!