[B]Once one find their place in this lifestyle/ BDSM wheither it is as a Dominant or a submissive, the biggest problem to me is finding a partner and a lasting relationship with-in it. Am I correct?

[/BAlso I find that once in the lifestyle, people look at you kinda like your a weirdo lol. They tend to shy away from you or avoid you, I think or is it just me?
The Third problem I find is in finding a partner that your looking for in your own area who wants and likes and needs all you can supply them and that includes all the kinks, desires, wants and needs and hard and soft limits or is that just me?

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