Not all of us are in a position where we can be with our S/O's all the time, but we still crave that dominant connection, that little buzz of control or submission. Then too, there are some of us who might strike up a D/s relationship on line that we'd like to take to the next level beyond just exchanging e-mails and IM's.

In both these cases we run into the problem of distance domination, or how to run a distance D/s relationship. What kind of things can we do when we're separated to maintain that special feeling of closeness and control we get from a D/s relationship.

Some things are obvious. Having the sub keep a journal or log is common, as is having them wear a token of their dom's influence, be it a collar or something less spectacular. Cyber sex is ubiquitous too, of course.

But what about things that might be more dramatic and memorable? The days when the sub is ordered to go without underthings, or to masturbate at a certain time of day, no matter where they are and report back to the dom.

What tips and secrets do you have for mantaining a distance D/s relationship? What works for you?