I've run into a very different circumstance of late. After a total hip replacement, my sub became my caregiver. We've had a good 24/7 D/s relationship going for 8 or so years but this changed the playing field somewhat. Because of the loopiness caused by my pain meds she has on occasion had to tell me when to do things, remind me to do my in-house PT, take me places in the car where she told me when, etc. It has been a bit of a challenge for both of us even though it is now tapering off as are my pain meds. By no means are either one of us a switch but this did avail us both a look at the other side and needless to say it made us both a bit uncomfortable. It was not a totally terrible experience but we'll both be happy to get back to our natural roles. Just puttin' it out there for your reading enjoyment...Sir L