Ok, this is a strange question from a sub, i know. My J reallllyyy likes to have me "sit on his face" (not in the D/s sense, but because he enjoys it. I think he likes being able to recline, and get to eat) But, how do you do it?

Ya ya, i know, you sit on him. But how do you not suffocate him? And enjoy it for that matter. I always feel like I'm putting too much energy into staying upright and not suffocating him, that I don't find it very pleasurable. (and since it isn't a punishment... that rather defeats his purposes)


thank you for reading my silly, naive question!

SP