I didnt really know where to post this but i selected here. I have a new counter with which i am slightly involved as we are both new to the life style (i have a bit more experiance then he as he has never experimented witht hte lifestyle before but was curious) and are enjoying exploring together. He is in the more dominant role. Last night after his 2 yr old daughter went to bed we were having a particularly rough play session and his daughter had a nightmare and walked in on us and became very upset, as we have never encountered this problem before (she usually sleeps through the whole night) we don't know how to explain the situation to her. Any suggestions and/or advice on how to balance playtime with parent time?

charlie