hello im a 33 year old male that has been dateing my girl for three years now im totally new to bdsm. it was figured out a few days ago that some thing was lacking and that some thing is a dom sub relationship. i love this women with all my heart and will do near anything to make her happy allthough i have to admit the thought of the dom sub side of things excites me a lot so im on a quest to learn all i can any help is greatly needed. thank you all.