5 parts domineering, 2 parts geek, 1 part well sized

[captainawesome]

Insanity is the doing the same thing expecting a different outcome. In looking for a good sub/dom relationship, I'm guessing we all have to be a little insane.

I'm a 23 year old male living in New York. I'll start with the vanilla half. I'm what you'd call a nerd disguised as a regular guy. I love reading - especially material that teaches me something new. I've never met a person who I couldn't make laugh. Despite that, I definitely can come off as stern and tend to take charge in most aspects of life. I run my own business, generally lead any projects I do, etc. When school and work are not taking up my time, I like to play guitar, do mixed martial arts, read, and catch up on some good movies or tv shows.

It's probably shallow to think that not everyone is shallow to some degree. So, in case it matters to you, I do work out daily and keep in good shape. Heck, I even do that crazy thing where you brush your teeth and shower daily.

As for the bdsm half of it, the psychological aspects of it is what intrigues me. Orgasm control and denial tops my list of interests. Keeping a sub on the verge of cumming for hours - perhaps days - on end, to finally be granted release with wave after wave of orgasm is quite the sight. Restraint, sensory control, and spanking are some other interests on my long list. It's not my major, but I do study psychology and body language quite a bit; Getting into my sub's head and figuring out how to blend her fears and desires is something I do with great care.

I'm looking for something online for now, but am certainly open to more in the future. I am also comfortable exchanging pictures.

I tend to gravitate towards girls with a feisty, confident demeanor, but I work well with most personality types. Quiet and shy is can also be alluring. Girls with a geeky side get an automatic +2 points. If you are interested, send me a private message. Make sure to tell me a bit about yourself. Not that I'm the overly emotional type, I would still prefer to find someone who I can actually carry a conversation with.

PS: The nickname "captainawesome" is not a cocky self reference; it is a tv show character. There seems to be some confusion about this.