Hi there,
I am hoping that this forum can shed some light on a few things for me.
Being a fairly new D (even if in my mind and fantasy this has a long history), I am really looking for some practical tips.
I guess a lot of you (us) have been there, you have purchased every item in the downtown s-shop and have played scenarios through in your head many times... have read articles, cheezy novels and watched late night TV.... ready to start D'ing with all your might. Once confronted by a slave though, I guess its not only the slave's limits on the test but to a larger extent the Dom. This is one of the few lifestyles where 'size' is definitely not as important as 'technique'.
Now to my question....
As a responsible human being, I must be in control of the situation, meaning that as a Master, I must know how to use my equipment, the physical limits of my s and so fourth. As a master, my slave expects me to know these things to train her properly.
These parameters you can read on just about any bdsm site, but NO-ONE let's on to where and how to obtain this knowledge. Finding a perfect slave is hard enough.. keeping her from being bored a real challenge. How do you start, when do you stop, how much s allowed... this should be cleared with the slave, but I am in no way interested in letting her Top from the bottom... How can I guide her and myself to our full potential?


Any advice form you potential Mentors?

Thanks