Hey guys, I need some help here. I recently signed up for several BDSM personals sites, and have spoken to some very nice men through them. A few weeks ago, I met and did some mild play with a local man. After that, he did not call me back for a few weeks, even when i suggested dates for going out, so I assumed he was no longer interested. I therefore kicked it up a few notches with another man I had been speaking to, exchanging some verrry interesting pictures and such...

So now the first man has contacted me again, saying that he has recently been working a lot and now he has some time off he'd like to see me again. I have also (previously) decidied to go to NY to meet and play with the second man.

So should I feel guilty if I play with both? Should I tell each of them that I am not yet exclusive? I do not know either very well, so I am not in a position to choose one at this point. If I need to tell them, how do I go about it? What do I say?

Is it appropriate to play casually with multiple people, or do I need to reassess my actions? Any advice would be very helpful- thanks,
-zig (confused)