Here's some insight into my BDSM life, so some of you might understand me better.

My user ID is TheRapist. That can either be read The Rapist or Therapist.

I am a licensed domestic violence counsellor. I mainly work over the phone for certain domestic violence prevention organizations. I counsel people - young women mostly - on their relationships. I handle mostly BDSM-related cases. I'm listed as a "kink friendly" service.

However, I do enjoy reading and writing rape fantasy. I enjoy playing it as well, under safe and consensual circumstances. I come across as dark and mysterious online sometimes because it's fun to be a mystery. I've never actually raped anyone, nor will I ever rape anyone. My job is encouraging people to report rapes and unsafe sexual acts to the police.

Now you know more about my BDSM life.

If anyone has further questions, please ask me or use the PM system here and write me privately.