I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man. We've been together for three years now, and have been living together for a little more than one.
When we first began a sexual relationship, I explained to him that I am submissive and enjoy being dominated very much. I told him that while I'm fine with vanilla sex, occasionally the BDSM bug is going to pop up and asked if that's something he could handle. He said he'd try, and he did. It was pretty mild but it worked for a while. When he attempted to dominate, he was pretty good at it, so I'd have to think he has some interest at least.
Now we're having what I call "married sex". I'm sure you all know what I mean I love him very very much, and what the relationship to continue, but the craving is getting severe.
I don't want to step outside of our relationship, but vibrators and fantasies are getting old.
Any thoughts on how to bring back his interest and develop it more?
Thanks for any ideas or comments!!