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Hello Sinbad.. Glidewynd beat me to it but welcome!
Alex Bragi
06-06-2005, 04:14 AM
Hi Sinbad, it's great to have you onboard... please no pun intended. ;)
cinchboy
06-06-2005, 05:22 AM
i am cinchboy, have been an online slave for 3 years; visit various sites; would like an online Mistress who shares my interst in horses; specifically pony training (s)
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.
<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.
Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.
And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...
angelfrumurnitemare
06-06-2005, 09:09 AM
Hello all. I have been lurking around this site for a few months, enjoying all the great stories, and i guess its time to introduce myself. I am a 28 year old female from Maryland, and i live with my Master. He is my best friend, my soul mate, and the love of my life. I was first introduced to the life style about 8 years ago by an ex-bf. I then had a failed vanilla marriage, and afterwards discovered that the man that had been my best friend for many years was into the lifestyle too. One thing led to another and now i couldnt imagine life being any sweeter.
I am looking forward to making new friends here and maybe learning a few new things too. :)
her_Joe
06-06-2005, 09:13 AM
Sinbad, I've only been here a few weeks myself but have gotten nothing but help and cordial replies. Enjoy.
her-Joe
Tiger
06-08-2005, 01:07 AM
Welcome aboard Sinbad!
(thread merged to "My Introduction")
Sub William
06-10-2005, 03:48 PM
Hi All, Sub William from London UK here. I'm a genuine experienced single Submissive guy, 47year old, working in the Military. I'm still searching for that caring Fem Domme! Are you out there? :(
BaldJean
06-11-2005, 12:46 PM
Hello, I am new to the forum, and my first story "Thunder and Lightning" was published today. My name is Jeanine (call me Jean), and I am one half of a submissive lesbian couple (the other half being Friederike, or simply Friede, my wife. Same sex marriage is legal here in Germany). Yes, we are both submissive. We had been a couple already before we discovered the lifestyle, and we found out we are both submissive. We tried to switch for each other for a while, but it did not work, so now we serve together. I hope you will like my story, but whether you like it or not, please give me some feedback.
A big hello to you from my wife also.
Hi Jean.. Welcome..
Same sex marriage is legal here in Canada too..
a_curious_poet
06-12-2005, 08:40 PM
Good evening, A/all...
My name is Ethan and I'm new to this BDSM forum. I'm not going to bore everyone with details of myself, just check my profile out please.
I'm involved in a very intimate/caring vanilla marriage that I'm trying to "spice" up.
We are trying to conceive our first child...so...looking for new and interesting ways/reasons to have intercourse. :help:
I'm looking forward to meeting lots of new and interesting people while intaking the wealth of information available here.
I'm a talker, so do not be afraid to PM me or just say Hi.
caillag
06-13-2005, 10:41 AM
Just a quick hello.....
I am not sure what to say...hmmmm...ask a question, I probably have an answer.... :)
Caillag
Hello.
I'm the fem half of a 24/7 D/s couple. We've been in the lifestyle about 2.5 years and started online actually.(met online then in 'real' 3 months later..have lived together 1.5 years now)
Don't know what people would like to know...
kist
Bald_J_and_F
06-19-2005, 02:09 PM
We have already been a member for a few days, and one of us already said "hello" under the name "BaldJean", but since we decided to use this name for when we are both together just a short introduction to us:
We are a submissive lesbian couple named Jeanine and Friederike, or just Jean and Friede. That may sound odd, because usually a couple consists of a dominant and a submissive person, but we had already been a couple for 5 years before we discovered the lifestyle and found out we are both submissive. Should we have parted because of this? We think not.
So we tried switching for each other for a while, but we were both pathetic as Dominants. It just didn't work. We have to be very dominant in our business life and want respite from that in our private ones. Then we met Mistress and served Her for over 4 years. Sadly She died of a car accident shortly before x-mas.
If you are curious about our name: Yes, we are bald, from head to toe. We don't even have eyelashes. Mistress was of the opinion slaves should not have any hair whatever to display their status, so it was all removed for keeps. We had one year of probation during which we had to shave head to toe daily and pluck the eyelashes once a week; after that we could decide to have it made permanent or be dismissed.
Well, had we been asked to make it permanent on the very first day we would probably have said "no thanks" and ran away from Mistress in horror, but after this year we had grown used to the look, so we agreed to it. After the repeated plucking the eyelashes hardly regrew anymore anyway.
Removing the hair permanently was a tedious process that had to be repeated several times, especially on the head, because there is always some dormant hair. We haven't had any regrowth for over 4 years meanwhile.
You may call us nuts because we submitted to this or call Mistress nuts because She required it, but She was anything but nuts. She was very strict, yes, but also very loving and caring, and we miss Her very much.
We already made a few friends in here and hope we will find many more. And some good news too: We have been collared again yesterday. It is not a 24/7 relationship yet, but we hope, nay we are sure it will grow into it.
A big "hello" to A/all from Jean and Friede!
anon_artist
06-19-2005, 05:22 PM
Welcome, Jeanine and Friederike! Your story is terribly interesting, and I hope you have fun at this site.
Congrats with your recent collaring as well. :D
*feels like chopped liver*
(teasing)
a_curious_poet
06-19-2005, 08:24 PM
@ Kist
Do not feel bad, sweetie. Nobody responded to my introduction either. So, we can feel like chopped liver together. haha
*finally stops crying*
:p
kist
Misanthrope
06-20-2005, 07:51 AM
Hello Kist and Mr. Poet. Hope you two have a wonderful time here :) See you around!
Hello and welcome everyone!
Hope you enjoy your stay here and find a nice home with like minded people who want to share and care about you and yours.
julia_j
06-20-2005, 04:57 PM
hi. i'm a newbie here and a sub. Well, at least i once was - it's been awhile (my last boyfriend didn't approve). just lurking for awhile.
Mad Lews
06-20-2005, 05:43 PM
hi. i'm a newbie here and a sub. Well, at least i once was - it's been awhile (my last boyfriend didn't approve). just lurking for awhile.
julia,
Lurk on! :D until you feel the need to delurk. and Welcome of course.
(Oh OH!! first entry on 69th page. very freudian I'm sure.)
Yours
Mad Lews
julia_j
06-20-2005, 06:37 PM
thanks for making me feel welcome
bonebaby69
06-22-2005, 06:33 PM
Hey all Im new and just wanted to leave a post and say hi. Im new to BDSM and a sub from NY. In my free time i horseback ride (since i was 4) and Iseskate(since i was 2 and a half) I look forward to meeting everyone :-p
Joe Falls
06-22-2005, 06:42 PM
I've been on here for a number of weeks, however, for various reasons my participation activity has been limited.
It would be my honor to submit to you as you see fit.
Joe Falls
Joe Falls
06-22-2005, 06:50 PM
I'm a sub from the NYC area, and some years ago I had a Mistress who abused me well. Circumstances have changed since then, and my current wife isn't at all interested, which is why I have been inactive for many years. I'm now looking to be able to utilize the most erotic organ of all, the mind, to get back in some part to a part of me that's now unsatisfied.
I would look to submit or do tasks as instructed by those on this site in a position to have me do so.
Joe Falls
Kaori-san
06-23-2005, 01:42 PM
Welcome Joe Falls and bonebaby69 :)
i hope everyone can enjoy the site as much as i have been :p
bonebaby69
06-26-2005, 09:47 AM
Welcome Joe Falls and bonebaby69 :)
i hope everyone can enjoy the site as much as i have been :p
Thanks. I hope so. it seems great :-p
steve_submits
06-27-2005, 09:12 AM
Hello,
i am a male submissive, married, in my mid '50s. Several years ago, through the Internet and online play, I came to understand and accept myself as a submissive and take pleasure in submitting to and pleasing a Domme. Amazingly, my wife of many years, after some discussion of our newly discovered mutual needs, asserted herself as a domme about a year after my awakening, turned our vanilla relationship into a D/s one. I enjoy bondage, some pain, sexual submission/power exchange, and worship of Her as my Goddess. I joined the BDSM Library hoping to learn how to serve Her better and to try to extend my sexual submission to other areas of our relatsionship. I am looking forward to meeting doms, dommes, as well as subs, to learn and to share knowledge and experience.
steven
Squall
06-28-2005, 09:05 PM
I registered a while ago but never got around to saying hello.
I'm a switch from Toronto that is interested mostly in the power play aspects of the scene, and might find time to post a story or two on the main site.
indulgemepls
06-30-2005, 04:46 PM
Hi everyone,
I hope to learn lots about this new delicious dom/sub world I've discovered. I came to life late last year after leaving a 23 year dead relationship and falling madly in love with my current master (my first -- first for him as well). In exploring my newly awakened sexuality, I realized how wonderful it is to be able to drop my power-mongering by day style of being at the door and be my master's subservient pet. I adore everything about it, but as we explore more, I'm having some trouble with the pain part. I love the edginess of intensity of sensation but am having trouble crossing the threshhold of pleasure to pain/pleasure, you know what I mean? But I adore learning more of this lifestyle each day...just wanted to peak my head in and say hi....tonight is my first dungeon session with my master. Very excited and a little nervous.....kinda like a doe in the headlights, LOL.
Look forward to learning more from all of ya,
Indulgemepls
bearbeast
06-30-2005, 05:49 PM
hi everyone,
My Mistress has allowed me to join you. my name is beast i have lived with my Mistress for the last ten years. Her Name is Mistress Riannon, She treats me well and punishes me hard. my Mistress saved me from a life of destruction all those years ago. i love her with all my soul. i hope i can talk again soon but i must go now
bye bye from beast
Misanthrope
06-30-2005, 06:41 PM
Hello Steve_Submits, Squal, Indulgemepls, and Bearbeast.
Welcome to the forum, and enjoy your stay! It's always nice to see new people. Even though I'm fairly new myself.
Hello all. My name is soko and I'm a female college student pursing the arts and my newly discovered sexual side.
I was raised in a VERY strict, narrow minded social circle which is extremely sexually repressive. (to the point that even being friends with the opposite sex may earn you a long lecture...at the very least.) I have only recently discovered my interest (and the freedom to indulge in) Bondage/BDSM relationships, though looking back I can see patterns of it in myself since childhood. I know that I want to be owned, that because of my control-freak oriented personality it is very liberating to be ordered what to do by a master, and that what I saw in this quote: "freedom is choosing whose slave you want to be" is one of the most freeing things I have ever read.
I look forward to getting to know you all.
~soko
cts81
07-01-2005, 02:52 AM
Hi, Im a 23 year old female from the uk. I'm submissive I always have been but it's only recently me and my husband have been exploring it. Im blonde, slim and 5 3.
Triton
07-01-2005, 12:20 PM
Hi guys
This is actually My second post in the forum, sorry I cheated :p
I am a 28 year old Dom from the UK, London for those W/who know it :D ...Actually I have no real experience but I'm verrrry interested in BDSM so I'm here to learn more (and more) about it and meet new people.
and while I'm still writing this...hi cts81! *waves to her* nice to meet another Brit :) I just posted in the Personals thread asking for any UK submissives.
Well that's Me!
porcelain
07-01-2005, 03:11 PM
Hi everyone!
I'm just introducing myself quickly. This place looks like a totally awesome resource and support centre for people in the BDSM lifestyle so thank you for that!
My name is Bronwyn and I'm a 23 year old submissive. I was in a brief real life relationship about a year ago (for about a year), but the man I was with became more and more demanding about doing things I specifically told him were off-limits when he refused to listen to my safeword, I decided I'd had enough and we parted ways. I'm only just now looking to get back into the lifestyle.
In non BDSM things, I'm a recent college graduate with a double major in Fine Arts (Photography) and English. I'd love to open up a studio focussed towards erotic and fetish photography with a body positive outlook aand a kink-friendly policy. We don't have enough places like that, I don't think.
I'm also a freelance writer and a hobbyist painter. I'm a graphic designer, a web developer, and an avid sketcher and crafter.
So that's me. :) I look forward to getting to know you all.
Desdemon
07-01-2005, 07:20 PM
I recently joined The Library and the Academy. Didn't realize they were linked until I followed a story written by BDSM_Tourguide to this site. 'Collectors Estate' I was amused at the final chapter, as I have spent summersa im Monroe LA for the last few years at a stage combat workshop.
I am a 38 yo sub female in NYC. I'm really new to this in practice, but nor so in thought. I have had the luck to meet someone with whom I have the opportunity to experament, and that has led me here.
I'm interested in exploring what this means to me, and just how involved I want to be. This is a grey area for me at the moment, as the man I am involved with is heavily into the BDSM scene. I am loving every moment we share and look forward to more, however I don't know if I would persue this if left on my own. Not for lack of interest, but for purposes of self preservation.
I'm an actress and combat choreographer who helps run a cult (of fire performers). We are all rockstars, and deserve to be treated as such!
Best effect BDSM has had on me: natural 38D breasts with an honest bit of droop actually serve better than tiny tits with implants!
bastet
07-03-2005, 05:24 PM
i am a collared submissive to Master Silverback...it is our one year anniversary today! i have been in the lifestyle now for about 6 years...most of which, luckily for me, have been wonderful. There is always new and exciting (sometimes terrifying) things to learn. i just recently joined the academy and hope to learn some new things there as well. There isnt too much i wont try except for anything dealing with animals, kids or scat....i find completeness when i am able to serve and please my Master whether it is through pain or pleasure for my Master. i love this lifestyle and endevour to do my best and continue to grow and learn.
bastet
mysticaljewel
07-05-2005, 09:36 PM
Hi everyone!
I am new here, both on the these forums and to BDSM. I'm 32 and from the UK. I am a sub, and not sure yet about things. Other interests are mainly trying to get a website up and running for a home business which keeps me busy designing things.
Anyway, just wanted to say hello, before I toddle off to bed. :)
Kaori-san
07-06-2005, 10:27 AM
-waves to everyone- :p
mysticaljewel hello especially, another English person :)
randomxyn
07-06-2005, 08:24 PM
I am not good at intro posts.
I put info in my profile.
I can't think of anything else of interest about me that isn't there really.
But, if you want to know more, ask and I'll do my best to inform.
albear
07-07-2005, 03:13 AM
Hiya cts81, Triton, Soko, porcelain, desdemon, bastet, mysticaljewel, randomxyn and everyone I've missed *takes a deeeep breath* Welcome and hope you're enjoying the forums! ;)
MayYellow
07-08-2005, 09:01 PM
Hi! I am new to these boards and bdsm in general. Myself and my boyfriend of 2 years, have just started out in this kinda stuff, but we've both done a lot of research. Our first time trying it turned out better than I had hoped, quite fun indeed! I played the submissive role. Anyway, I joined the forum to learn more about it. That's about all!
slutbeth
07-09-2005, 02:32 AM
Hello everyone, my name is beth (or slutbeth to some) and im new here...inexperienced, but seemingly very sub....
Into lots of different things, and having fun in finding out what really turns me on.
Hope to spend sometime looking round the forum, getting to know a few people and learning a lot about the lifestyle and also myself! :)
beth x
erotic_nibbles
07-09-2005, 03:30 AM
WELCOME TO:
sm1277, WannaPlay, redhot33, bug (been enjoying your posts already!), STIR11111, Navy, Glidewynd, Kaori-san, Lady Moonflower, nikita, Sinbad, princeofdenmark, cinchboy, angelfrumurnitemare,Sub William, BaldJean (&Bald J and F as you also go by), a curious poet, caillag, kist, anon artist (I see you are welcoming others, but as I hadn't seen you before I will welcome you!), julia j, bonebaby69, Joe Falls, steve submits, Squall, indulgemepls, bearbeast, Soko, cts81, Triton (Wolverine rules!), porcelain, Desdemon, bastet, mysticaljewel, randomxyn, MayYellow, & slutbeth
Forgive my tardiness in welcoming so many of you!.....I am so sorry that some of you felt left out and ignored......I have been having computer problems or I would have been in sooner :(
I am so happy to see all of you!....this is a wonderful site to meet people and learn from them...we also enjoy learning from newcomers.....all our experiences are great reference points for others, so please share your questions and thoughts with us :)....jump on in the water's fine!
~~nibbles~~
Snowdoggie
07-09-2005, 05:27 AM
Aloha all ~ Dog is a Dom, 5ft 8 about 150lbs. Ex rugby player and doorman in my younger days so i am pretty well built. Amongst the usual stuff I am into FANTASY rape and blackmail and I have looked for an online sub for a number of years and not yet found the right lady.
Good job i am patient lol. I like to chat and i hope i am fun. Only you can judge.
Kaori-san
07-09-2005, 08:10 AM
-waves to Snowdoggie- welcome :p
i hope You have a nice time here :D and same to E/everyone else!
jenniQ
07-10-2005, 10:42 PM
Im new to this forum and what an eye opener it has been. Im married and my Husband has just become my Master after me wanting to submit to him for such a long time he over came his fears on hurting me and now I am his slut for ever and my mind body and soul are his.we are still learning and my Master is doing really well (its a bit surprising)if any one has got some good ideas on how to build your pain threshold up let me know. :)
Rhiannon
07-12-2005, 04:57 PM
Hiya Everybody!
Just a short hello from me. I am the Wife and Mistress of bearbeast, and very glad to be both. I look forward to joining in with the forums and learning from those with more experience and wisdom then myself .... Ruby I thank you
JimmyJump
07-13-2005, 01:13 PM
Yep, it's me... And I hope it's you too... :D
Just signed-up to be able to post reviews ;)
And, since I am a rather polite kind of person, I find it but normal to say "hello yee all" to this neat little community...
Hope to read each-other around the board...
Cheerio
JJ
PS: Being from Belgium, I'm absolutely flabbergasted there's no beer-smiley to be found... :dunno:
Movito
07-13-2005, 02:41 PM
I'm a near-to-nice guy from Munich, Germany. Switcher (at least, I hope that). New to BDSM since about six months. Still searching... for answers, little fights, good talk, tears, laughter, a woman... so I'm happy that I've been directed to this forum.
Greetings to all!
bridgey
07-13-2005, 11:52 PM
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.
<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.
Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.
And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...
Hello.
Very "new" and just checkin junk out
Ranai
07-14-2005, 04:18 AM
*Rolling out the red carpet for everyone who has joined.*
G’day jenniQ,
hiya Rhiannon,
proost JimmyJump,
herzlich willkommen Movito,
welcome bridgey!
Enjoy the forum, contribute whenever and wherever it pleases you.
Kaori-san
07-14-2005, 09:54 AM
Hiya Everybody!
Just a short hello from me. I am the Wife and Mistress of bearbeast, and very glad to be both. I look forward to joining in with the forums and learning from those with more experience and wisdom then myself .... Ruby I thank you
Hello Rhiannon, lovely to meet you. i'v seen/spoken to bearbeast around the site and your lucky to have him :)
Hope you have a nice time on the site!
Jacks_shaun
07-16-2005, 02:29 PM
First time in a long while that I've thought of myself as a newbie. I come from alt.com, am a r/t submissive slave. My Master's name is Jack. I've had my own website for a number of years concerning my viewpoints of the lifestyle that needs a serious redecoration. Right now for as much as I do know both for online and offline venues, I feel the need to extend my knowledge as I search to better myself from my submissive state of mind. So I came here. Elsewhere I am known as Xanadu827. I just wanted to say hi. :)
slave_lisa
07-19-2005, 09:04 AM
Well, what a long discussion.
Other then that...
Slave Kira, at your service, unless told otherwise.
I live here in Winnipeg, Manitoba (Canada for those that don't know) and I am fairly new to the slave aspect of BDSM, although I like what I see so far. You will find that when I talk I am very... shall we say, analytical. I don't really take sides and I can argue from almost any perspective. I am a very philosophical person alone with a very emotional person. I find, that life, is dominated by emotions, much as a slave is by a master (oh, bad analogy, hehe :p, thats also what I do, bad humour.) Umm, I write, books. Full length novels averaging about 300 pages in length.
Other then that, not much about me, less you wanna start talking to me and getting to know me better.
And if this isn't the right place to post intro's I apoligize and a moderator can move it.
Mad Lews
07-19-2005, 02:20 PM
Well, what a long discussion.
Other then that...
Slave Kira, at your service, unless told otherwise.
I live here in Winnipeg, Manitoba (Canada for those that don't know) and I am fairly new to the slave aspect of BDSM, although I like what I see so far. You will find that when I talk I am very... shall we say, analytical. I don't really take sides and I can argue from almost any perspective. I am a very philosophical person alone with a very emotional person. I find, that life, is dominated by emotions, much as a slave is by a master (oh, bad analogy, hehe :p, thats also what I do, bad humour.) Umm, I write, books. Full length novels averaging about 300 pages in length.
Other then that, not much about me, less you wanna start talking to me and getting to know me better.
And if this isn't the right place to post intro's I apoligize and a moderator can move it.
Welcome Slave Kira, of the Northland,
We rarely chastise for poor puns, but if you really want us to we might make an exception. Do let us know. ;)
SO will you be gracing the library with some of your writings? Inquiring readers would love to know?
Yours
Truly
Mad Lews
Though my friends call me Mad
slave_lisa
07-19-2005, 02:32 PM
well, if you wish to read some of my writing it is only a matter of time. as of now i am a bit, busy.
Question: where do i write the stories?
Thanks for the invit Mad.
Mad Lews
07-19-2005, 08:06 PM
well, if you wish to read some of my writing it is only a matter of time. as of now i am a bit, busy.
Question: where do i write the stories?
Thanks for the invit Mad.
Slave-Kira,
You can read stories and /or follow the submit story link at
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/
You don't have to put 300 page novels up, short storys of 5 to 10 pages are quite common.
Or you can do a 1000 word scene on the "Short Takes" thread on this forum.
**** bad pun alert*****
You write the stories on your computer. Yes? :D
Mad
slave_lisa
07-19-2005, 08:43 PM
Tnx for the link, and yes I write them on the computer.
Saint Jezebel
07-22-2005, 04:51 AM
Hi to all... i just figured that since i'm new here and all, i should properly introduce myself. I saw the thread and thought it would be a good place to start, but now i feel like i may be interrupting something... Sorry if i am, but i was just curious and wanted to say hello.
I'm in Australia, so my time difference is going to be a bit odd, but i'd still like to get to know everyone as much as possible. I'm a writer myself, though i've never submitted anything here, i've got one planned for real soon, though, so i hope it's good enough.
If anyone ever feels like a chat, i'm pretty open to everything, so feel free to contact me anytime.
Once again G'day to everyone.
fetishdj
07-22-2005, 05:03 AM
Hi Jezebel! Good to see you on here and I hope that you have a good time and find what you are looking for. You may want to check out the BDSM academy as well (www.bdsmlibrary.com/dungeon I think) and have a plauy about in there.
fetishdj
07-22-2005, 05:05 AM
Hi Jezebel! Good to see you on here and I hope that you have a good time and find what you are looking for. You may want to check out the BDSM academy as well (www.bdsmlibrary.com/dungeon I think) and have a plauy about in there.
Sorry... got the url wrong. That one will get you there but try
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/academy/
instead. It goes direct... :)
Saint Jezebel
07-22-2005, 05:31 AM
Thanks, i've already registered, i hope to have some fun there soon...
It's great to see that everyone's so open here. It's such a relief having someplace where you can go to chill without been seen as a freak.
fetishdj
07-22-2005, 06:46 AM
Ah, looks like I got there too late with my advert then... :)
Rough Ryder
07-22-2005, 11:41 PM
Hello A/all,
I'm not currently active in the BDSM community, I have a little bit of exposure from past experiences, but I wouldn't consider myself qualified as a journeyman so to speak.
I do have friends who are active in the community, and they share their experiences with me. I have some participation in the community because of them, but I would call it more of a supporting role(i.e. the friend that is there for them, and offers them company).
I registered mainly because I don't understand some of the experiences that they've had, and would just like a place where I can go to seek qualified opinions from people of experience.
I've been told that a "rough rider" is a gay male top, while my name bears a striking resemblance to that term, it is not an indication of my sexuality.
hislittlebrattysub
07-24-2005, 03:29 AM
Hi I'm new to the bdsm scene. I'm 23/f/sub and my hubby is Dom. (thankfully!) I have always been attracted to these sorts of ideas, but until I got married, there wasn't anyone I would have trusted enough to explore this. Hubby and I are sorta in forced celibacy, I suppose you could say as he is away on business and then I will be off visiting family. One more month! So for right now, we haven't actually gotten to play but are exploring and learning as much as we can. VERY excited to be with him again so we can try all this out. Nice to meet all of you!!! :D
Mad Lews
07-24-2005, 06:47 AM
Hi I'm new to the bdsm scene. I'm 23/f/sub and my hubby is Dom. (thankfully!) I have always been attracted to these sorts of ideas, but until I got married, there wasn't anyone I would have trusted enough to explore this. Hubby and I are sorta in forced celibacy, I suppose you could say as he is away on business and then I will be off visiting family. One more month! So for right now, we haven't actually gotten to play but are exploring and learning as much as we can. VERY excited to be with him again so we can try all this out. Nice to meet all of you!!! :D
Hi hislittlebrattysub
There’s nothing like abstinence to make the heart grow fonder. I’m not sure I’d put up with a month of it. :dunno:
Good luck and hope the time flies
Take care
Mad Lews
hislittlebrattysub
07-24-2005, 01:07 PM
Hi hislittlebrattysub
There’s nothing like abstinence to make the heart grow fonder. I’m not sure I’d put up with a month of it. :dunno:
Good luck and hope the time flies
Take care
Mad Lews
Thanks for the welcome :)
We dont' really have a choice...he's military, so we've been through worse, but homecoming is GREAT
King_Reinheart
07-25-2005, 03:33 PM
G'day everyone, I found this site through my G/f Saint Jezebel, its nice to see she's fitting in. I like to write also, but chances are no-one would like my stories so I'll never bother submiting them.
I'm a very charasmatic person so if anyone ever wants to chat just send me a message, im online nearly all the time
Mad Lews
07-25-2005, 05:28 PM
G'day everyone, I found this site through my G/f Saint Jezebel, its nice to see she's fitting in. I like to write also, but chances are no-one would like my stories so I'll never bother submiting them.
I'm a very charasmatic person so if anyone ever wants to chat just send me a message, im online nearly all the time
Good King_Reinheart
Welcome to the Library. I for one am sorry you've decided against posting stories. You would be surprised what others find amusing and the stories here cover a wide range of topics and writing skills. (I know, they even let me post a few) Still it's all up to you and do what you feel comfortable doing.
Take care and have fun
Mad Lews
goldenchild
07-25-2005, 10:30 PM
I stumbled across this great site last night and just had to register.
pejanon
07-26-2005, 06:29 PM
I've been around for a while so it seems this is in order.
I'm in my prime. Occasional lapse of reason is not a sign of aging :D . I am primarily a Dom (well, Top) but I love switching - even if it messed my life somewhat.
I've had several forays in the lifestyle (even a marriage) but at the moment I am primarily (but not exclusively!) intrestested in smut. I've been enjoying it forever and consider it an authentic art form - besides, it's great fun! :D (am considering to post something myself, it would be only fair.)My job involves a lot of reading and writing - but at least I get all those nice books and movie tickets (SF mainly)! I also paint when I get the time and a 'mood' strikes me ... shut up, it's almost embarassing. ;)
Oh, English is not my 1st language - so please go easy on me. (Wellll, no, don't!)
Thank you
Have Fun.
Pejanon
fantazmaster
07-26-2005, 07:23 PM
Hello-My name is Fantazmaster and I am glad to have found this site as the library and the forum are indeed great resources to have access to.I am a creative writer and many of my works take place well within the realm of BDSM.I do not post these as most are custom written and incorporate the
ideas and desires of a particular person or persons.In many cases these individuals have varying ideas that they seem to correlate into a cohesive
story or fantasy and that is often where I am able to help by weaving these elements together.My present projects in development include
1.A forced weight loss story,where a BBW joins a swingers club and her Sugar Daddy discovers her pictures on the swingers club website and sends her to a very unique fat farm run by several cruel lezdoms.
2.Breaking new ground here-a white slavery ring starts using erotic hypnosis via the Internet to prepare and then lure women into their clutches.
3.Another new ground project,3 male-female couples compete to see
which couple will offer the most to stay together at a slave trader's facility,with the other losing couples facing the prospect of being auctioned off seperately.
If any of these projects above set off any bursts of inspiration or ideas,I would be glad to hear from you and as always I always welcome collaborators.
Constantine
07-27-2005, 10:33 PM
Hello everyone! Everyone online calls me Krys, i guess yall can as well.
I have been in the lifestyle for five years give or take. I am defined as a slave. I have had only three Masters in my time, and all were mostly for training and exploration. I enjoy a Master who is an extreme sadist for i am a masochist. Pain for me is like an orgasm in it's self.
I am into many things, however i do not deal with the likes of Animals, children, needles, and "Golden showers". Such a no no for me.
I am into vampirism. I love to bite and be bitten and i have the fangs to prove it.
I do not have a Master right now, and i am not sure if i am looking for one. My life is getting on track as it should and so i am focusing on that. I think BDSM is such a beautiful way to live and had it not been for the net, i would have never taken the interest.
I find out new things about myself every day, and i expect there is far more to learn.
Hope to see you all around soon.
Happy Posting!
Krys
TwoSheds
07-28-2005, 12:01 PM
Hi gang, I'd tell you all about me here, except I've known me forever and to tell you the truth, I'm pretty damn tired of myself. You know how it is when you've known someone forever. I seem to always know exactly what's going to come out of my mouth before I even open it. I'm forever completing my own sentences, any time I go out I'm sure to run into myself there. It's almost as if I'm following me...
~Lily~
07-29-2005, 10:06 AM
Hi,
I've just joined after browsing for a while now, a friend pointed me in the direction of this site I *think* he has submitted a few of his stories and I'm hoping to dip my toe in and submit one soon.
I'm not sure what I am, I've put switch but I'm not sure that's strictly accurate. I have been playing with BDSM for a while now, but it really has been just playing although I considered myself to be submissive. Then I met a fellow sub and I discovered a different side to me. I still love being dominated, but now I want to dominate men too, or at least I think I do! It's all very confusing!
~Lily~
Breathless
07-31-2005, 11:30 AM
I guess I'm the latest "victim" - a role I look forward to playing.
I'm somewhat new to the BDSM scene, having joined Abductor.com a little while ago (under the same name). I'm just starting to do some writing, and I guess I need to know whether it's appropriate to post in both places. Are many people members at both sites?
I'm a little nervous about being here - not because I'm scared of what anyone is going to do to me, but because I'm afraid I'll become so addicted that I will totally lose myself. Although after reading a few of the stories and comments that I've seen posted, perhaps I SHOULD be more concerned about what could happen.
Be afraid, Breathless. Be very afraid.
Kaori-san
07-31-2005, 11:48 AM
-waves to all the newcommers- Hi everyone here :p Hope you all enjoy your stay!
tyria
07-31-2005, 12:29 PM
Hi, I just registered and wanted to say hello and introduce myself. I'm tyria, I am female/submissive. I found the library by chance afew days ago and decided to register.I've only recently become interested again in BDSM though a long time ago I was introduced by a boyfriend.
Hello,
i've been a member for a while, but never introduced myself here. i have got so much from the threads on these boards (besides, obviously, the stories) that i thought i should.
i'm 34, English, male and an owned slave. i will be moving from the UK to Canada by the end of this year to live with my Mistress, and i can't wait.
i'd be humbly grateful if you took a look at my blog sometime, at www.livejournal.com/users/ownedbitch
i don't really have any friends in the 'bdsm community', and would welcome comments in the blog (good or bad, truly) or any contact from anyone who likes to discuss submission, slavery, obstacles, delights, anything. And, if You happen to enjoy watching humiliation, Mistress is quite keen on letting others view some of our webcam sessions.
Besides being a slave, I'm into poker, reading voraciously, leftish politics, philosophy, sports...
Thanks for listening.
Breathless
08-01-2005, 06:18 PM
Thanks so much for the "welcome" Kaori-san. Does anyone have suggestions regarding their favorite stories and/or authors? There is SO MUCH here that it is overwhelming!
Today at work my boss hosted a lunch so that the employees - many of whom are new - could get to know each other a little better. As we sat and ate our Chinese take-out, he asked us to go around the room and tell the others "something about ourselves that most people don't know". I almost choked on my eggroll thinking how this was just about the only thing people don't know about me, and wondering what their reaction would be to such a revelation. Who knows - maybe I'd have found a playmate!
Kaori-san
08-02-2005, 05:20 AM
Thanks so much for the "welcome" Kaori-san. Does anyone have suggestions regarding their favorite stories and/or authors? There is SO MUCH here that it is overwhelming!
Today at work my boss hosted a lunch so that the employees - many of whom are new - could get to know each other a little better. As we sat and ate our Chinese take-out, he asked us to go around the room and tell the others "something about ourselves that most people don't know". I almost choked on my eggroll thinking how this was just about the only thing people don't know about me, and wondering what their reaction would be to such a revelation. Who knows - maybe I'd have found a playmate!
Your welcome for the .. welcome :p
If you want to find out favourite authors head over to this thread http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=317 it has tons of peoples favourite authors in it :)
Funny story, I would have loved to see what reactions you could have got if you told everyone "Hello, I'm into BDSM and I'm a female sub." -laughs- well have fun around the site Breathless :D
blue77roses
08-02-2005, 09:20 AM
Hello there! My name is Ali but I have been going by the name Blue in the Academy forum. I have been reading stories in the library for quite some time now and have just recently started to join the forums the library offers. Like Breathless not a whole lot of people know that I'm a female submissive. Just recently I was filling out some questions on a dating service site and it asked "What is one thing that only your best friends know?" Hmmm...I was tempted to write "I'm a female submissive," but I thought that might be too much information right away. :) Well I just wanted to say hi to everyone, so hi. *Waves hand to everyone*
Ali aka Blue
fschiff
08-02-2005, 12:52 PM
I am a new member and not sure what to do here so help.
fschiff
08-02-2005, 12:54 PM
Hi back and I a a dom and interested in meeting new submissives. Fred
Hello there! My name is Ali but I have been going by the name Blue in the Academy forum. I have been reading stories in the library for quite some time now and have just recently started to join the forums the library offers. Like Breathless not a whole lot of people know that I'm a female submissive. Just recently I was filling out some questions on a dating service site and it asked "What is one thing that only your best friends know?" Hmmm...I was tempted to write "I'm a female submissive," but I thought that might be too much information right away. :) Well I just wanted to say hi to everyone, so hi. *Waves hand to everyone*
Ali aka Blue
alexandra_p27
08-03-2005, 06:35 AM
Dear Members of the board,
my name is Alexandra, I live in Bavaria, Germany. I have been writing
for a long time, but mostly non-erotic stories.
I like to read a lot and found the Library years ago.
Yes, and: I just posted my second story in here, but it is
in german language, for my english is not good enough for
writing in general.
I like to read stories from very extreme to mild themes, not
only bdsm-related, other eotic stories to.
My favorites are reluctant/humiliation/degradation-themes.
Dunno why exactly, but I find it thrilling somehow.
So, I am always up to new ideas, and so on.
I am not active in real life, but I like to fantasize and dream a lot.
Alexandra
chinawank
08-05-2005, 04:57 AM
Hi,
I am a chinese, and live in Shanghai, china.
Hope I am not the first/only chinese member here. I have many spanking fantasies from childhood, and later find I am passionate to nearly all BDSM topics.
As most Chinese citizens, I am living a busy live with high pressure and limited fun time. However, I will try my best to visit the site more, for I find this space lovely and very resourceful.
Ranai
08-06-2005, 02:10 AM
*Waves to all the new people onboard.*
Welcome to
tyria
fwss
Breathless
blue77roses
fschiff
alexandra_p27
chinawank
It’s a pleasure to have you all here.
Hi all,
I am new here (that's what this thread is for eh?), and have joined because my girlfriend is very intrigued by BDSM, and has been on the 'scene' in previous relationships. She wants to bring this more into our relationship (not in life, just in play) and I am open enough to try it, especially since I have always liked kinky sex.
My problem is that I don't have the confidence to dominate her, and worry that I'll dissappoint her. We have discussed this openly, but I still don't have the confidence, even though we have played some scenes out and they have gone fairly well. As such, I thought that I would come here and try to learn about myself and others to try to help me reach a point I am comfortable at.
From what I have read I think that these forums may be a big step towards nice that!
Speak to you all soon
lil-rrh
08-13-2005, 11:52 AM
Wow, what a cosmopolitan board, I love how the planet feels smaller on the Internet. :D
OK, a little about me? Well I live in east-coast Scotland and work from home as a self-employed programmer/designer for boring computer related stuff, in saying that I really enjoy it :D. I have recently bitten the bullet and decided to open up my writing to critic, as I know the only way I'll improve is by getting some feedback. I'm a shy person and probably won't have much to say on the boards, but, well, if you all promise not to bite... heheh. I feel quite nervous about showing any stuff I've done to anyone, but at least this site provides the perfect forum for help and a good frame-work for learning (plus I can skuttle off, if it gets too much! lol)
So, Hello all <wavey smiley> :D
Master_chris
08-14-2005, 03:39 AM
Wow, what a cosmopolitan board, I love how the planet feels smaller on the Internet. :D
OK, a little about me? Well I live in east-coast Scotland and work from home as a self-employed programmer/designer for boring computer related stuff, in saying that I really enjoy it :D. I have recently bitten the bullet and decided to open up my writing to critic, as I know the only way I'll improve is by getting some feedback. I'm a shy person and probably won't have much to say on the boards, but, well, if you all promise not to bite... heheh. I feel quite nervous about showing any stuff I've done to anyone, but at least this site provides the perfect forum for help and a good frame-work for learning (plus I can skuttle off, if it gets too much! lol)
So, Hello all <wavey smiley> :D
Wecome to this some plant. I hope that you will find a lot of interesting topics and storys that will help you in your own writing.
on a personal note. I am also into the computers about I am the man in the back room, looking after all the hardware and software. giggle.
verotica
08-14-2005, 08:36 PM
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.
<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.
Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.
And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...
Hey there,
I saw the post welcoming new people and was shy at first but thought I'd say hello.
Obviously I am new here and don't know anyone (yet), but surely it's about introducing yourself and finding people to relate to etc.
My name's Kylie and I'm from Australia. I enjoy photography, reading, music and of course bdsm. I've been experimenting with submission and bondage for a few years and enjoy reading about other people's experiences, and hope to meet some alike people and have some great conversations.
Take care :o
Rosie
08-20-2005, 05:58 PM
I've been a lurker here for some time, and thought I should finally join in. I am English, and have had sub tendencies for as long as I can remember, but have only recently realised why - mainly due to the information on the Internet.
Pleased to meet you, guys!
Breathless
08-21-2005, 08:40 AM
I'm still a newcomer here myself, but wanted to say "Welcome" to all the new folks (and "Don't be shy!" to all the lurkers).
I've found the people at this site to be among the most friendly, non-judgmental and interesting group around. I think a lot of the credit for that goes to our wonderful BDSM Tour Guide - he is amazing.
For all you veterans - any particular threads, chats or other suggestions for us rookies?
THE Traveller
08-21-2005, 10:36 AM
It's great to see you here :) Welcome to the "BDSM Library". Hope you'll enjoy your stay here.
To answer your question; there are some members here who also go online over at "House of Abductor's" ( aka. "House of Bondage" ), indeed.
BTW, I've always liked your signature quote and wanted to ask you if it's from somewhere else? I thought Breathless M. could be standing for Breathless Mahooney, a character from the D. Tracy serial?
See you around.
Traveller
PS. Can't wait to read the next chapter of "Yard Work".
Breathless
08-21-2005, 09:12 PM
Thanks for the welcome, Traveller. Yes, the quote is from "Dick Tracy", although the reason you may not recognize it is because it's from the musical version (so it's Madonna's lyrics). The whole song sums up my feelings about BDSM so well that I couldn't resist taking the name (or keeping the quote for both sites).
I've slowed down on my writing (hence the delay in posting additional chapters of "Yard Work" primarily due to being caught up in one of the Abductor classics (Outlaw & Redhead Sue's story). I can't bring myself to stop reading, which I'm sure you'll understand.
By the way, thank you for the kind comments on my photo. Took a lot of convincing to get DH to agree to let me post it (let alone get him to take it!) so it's nice to get some feedback.
Would love to see photos from the rest of the gang here!
Phantome
08-21-2005, 10:51 PM
Hiya, all! I've been hanging around here for several weeks now, and finally decided to register so I could post. I'm glad to be here! Anyway, here's a quick overview of me: I'm a student, I'm engaged, and I hopefully graduate this year. I'm studying music education and classical performance. I'm interested in music, art, literature (snore....). I promise I'm not as boring as I sound! I'm politically liberal, an avid cat lover, enthusiastic traveller, amateur chef, wannabe landscapist, and social butterfly.
I just wanted to drop in and let everyone know I'm here, but I've got to sign off; tomorrow is the first day of school, and I'm already ready for the semester to be over. T-minus 6 hours until the first class of the day, and I gotta get some sleep....
-Phantome
Sweetsboi
08-22-2005, 01:22 PM
Hiya, all! I've been hanging around here for several weeks now, and finally decided to register so I could post. I'm glad to be here! Anyway, here's a quick overview of me: I'm a student, I'm engaged, and I hopefully graduate this year. I'm studying music education and classical performance. I'm interested in music, art, literature (snore....). I promise I'm not as boring as I sound! I'm politically liberal, an avid cat lover, enthusiastic traveller, amateur chef, wannabe landscapist, and social butterfly.
I just wanted to drop in and let everyone know I'm here, but I've got to sign off; tomorrow is the first day of school, and I'm already ready for the semester to be over. T-minus 6 hours until the first class of the day, and I gotta get some sleep....
-Phantome
Greetings Phantome,
i am also a student, however, i am studying Psychology with minors in Communcations, Women/Gender studies/ Photography and am thinking of one in Native American Studies (many of these over lap at my University). So, you don't sound boring at all to me.
i am also an animal lover (cats in perticular or ferrets :D ). Below you will see a picture i posted for you of my baby (Butterscotch). W/we also have two all black cats (my Mistress's and my daughter's), plus a foster dog.
i was granted the pleasure of taking pictures of a client's cats this past week. It was a lot of fun.
Our classes for the semester started today, however, i was one of the lucky few that don't start until tomorrow because i don't have classes on Monday until next week (late starting class).
i am glad you unlurked and hope you find everything you want to know here. If not ask and i am sure these friendly Dom/mes and the subs will be glad to help you.
Sincerely,
Sweetsboi
Sweetsboi
08-22-2005, 01:24 PM
Please forgive me for the large picture. I didn't realize it was this large in format. If it is to large please feel free to take it down/or adjust the size.
Humbly,
Sweetsboi
Phantome
08-22-2005, 01:47 PM
Thanks for the warm welcome! Butterscotch is a very cute kitty. I feel much better today, having gotten the first day out of the way. I don't know how I'm going to survive this year, my schedule is so full. Oh well- I guess we'll just have to really squeeze in some "playtime" so I don't become a dull girl from working all the time. :)
Ranai
08-23-2005, 05:20 AM
any particular threads, chats or other suggestions for us rookies?
Breathless, there is no hierarchy. Please contribute to any threads where the subject matter interests you. Newer, older, longer and shorter, controversial and unanimous ones. If you have a new theme or wish to approach a theme from a new angle, create a new thread. The first threads I wrote something in after I joined were Your Avatar...why? (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2494) and Early fantasies (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=684) and then I simply continued with any threads I found that touched my interest.
Also, story reviews: as a member you have the privilege to publicly (or privately) applaud the authors who give you a good time, and offer constructive criticism. Log in, click on 'BDSM Library' at the bottom right of the forums page, select a story you enjoyed and click 'review it'. If you are curious what else other readers who like what you like have reviewed, click on their name on the review page. Then click 'see user's review list'. Another neat feature are the BDSMshelf lists where people collect their favourite stories. You find them in the right column on the story and review pages. Similarly, if someone's contributions to the forums interest you, you can click on their name and on the profile page select 'Find all posts by X' or 'Find all threads started by X'.
Basically, in the library click on the red underlined stuff and you will be taken to interesting places. In the forums, click on the blue underlined stuff and write in any threads you wish. Say what you think and enjoy yourself, that's what this place is for. :)
P.S. Welcome to Phantome and Sweetsboi!
Breathless
08-23-2005, 06:11 PM
Thank you so much for the detailed and wonderfully informative response Ranai! I'll start browsing right away! I'm fairly talkative, as you will soon discover, but it's nice to be welcomed and encouraged!
This site is fantastic, and everyone seems very open and friendly! I'm so glad I found my way here!
Lucy Kitten
08-24-2005, 02:01 AM
This is an amazing site. So helpful!
Hi my name's Lucy. I am a 24 year old, collared, female submissive from Lancashire in England.
Pleased to meet Y/you all. :D
bearbeast
08-24-2005, 03:29 AM
welcome lucy Kitten
hope you find everything you need and enjoy yourself whilst slipping through the pages :D
Have a good day/night :D
bye bye for now
This is an amazing site. So helpful!
Hi my name's Lucy. I am a 24 year old, collared, female submissive from Lancashire in England.
Pleased to meet Y/you all. :D
Pagan Chaos
08-25-2005, 12:15 AM
Hello,
i just wanted to post a hello since ive spent the last couple hours looking through and reading topics and i liked the various veiw points that ive come across
lets see a quick short bio...
My names Chris, and I'm 31
there ya go.. anything else just ask :morte1:
redEva
08-25-2005, 04:57 AM
Welcome to all new faces, and thank you Ranai for making regular appearances here - it is nice to be welcomed. Hope all of you, lovely newcomers make your cyber home here, like many before you.
And, YES! Please, do comment on stories - that is the only “payment” our authors get :)
P.S. love your avatar Pagan Chaos
rodharden
08-26-2005, 06:30 AM
Hi. I do a bit of writing under the name Rod Harden. Posted a couple of stories here many many moons ago, and hope to post more soon.
I'm about to hit the big five-oh and wondering what the hell happened to the 40s! lol
Anyhoo, hope to participate where and when I can. Looking forward to getting to know you all better.
solesta
08-26-2005, 08:24 AM
Master gave me a name change :woohoo: ( I used to be ileana :) ) so the name is new but not the person. See you all around. :eyes:
tabuk
08-27-2005, 07:09 PM
Hi there,
I'm new to bdsm and this board. Still working out what part of bdsm interests me, I do know though that I am sub. Hubby worked that one out very quickly :)
I'm a 37 year old who has been very heavily into the Gorean life style, that was until I became pregnant with my beautiful daughter and asked a few questions. Kinda got dissed out of the scene at that point. I was collared online by several "Masters" [or should i say those who assumed they were Masters] until meeting my hubby online. I then becamed collared to him in real life until i had to remove it during the birth of my formentioned girl. It never went back on. Motherhood changed me but now I have started to feel interested in bdsm. I still have too many unanswered questions about Gor to go back to it.
The bdsm library [for me] is one way of exploring this wonderful realm and thank you for putting it here.
Ok now that I have bored the pants off you all will say take care and have fun Oh and pain for those of you who like it.
Taby
Gr8fulgirl
08-27-2005, 09:45 PM
A quick hello - I'm looking forward to peeking and poking around the site and getting to know how it all comes together....
~ Play Safe ~
Gr8fulgirl
Incubus Argenteus
09-01-2005, 11:13 PM
Well I am not new here but I have been away for some time, since february, so posting here to tell I am back and will participate.
little_rose
09-02-2005, 06:06 AM
Uhh,
Hi guys! This is my very first post, so just a little nervous- but as felinaform says, "everybody here seems happy and good", so i feel pretty comfortable.
Ive kinda recently come to BDSM, but i like bondage and spanking, and humiliation in some sorts.. :p
I really love this site. Ive had a good look around, and although i still have no clue how to get into the BDSM library, the ppl seem varied and upfront about their feelings which is so cool!
Anyways, i dont have a master/mistress..so im exploring solo at the mo, and enjoying it:) Im a student doing an undergrad degree in Anthropolgy- that's about ppl and cultures, not bones- mostly interested in how other ppl think and live- so into being politically active (liberal left), getting into conversation with random ppl, dance, and being very spur of the moment :D
Ha, sorry for boring you!
Mad Lews
09-03-2005, 04:53 AM
Uhh,
Hi guys! This is my very first post, so just a little nervous- but as felinaform says, "everybody here seems happy and good", so i feel pretty comfortable.
Ive kinda recently come to BDSM, but i like bondage and spanking, and humiliation in some sorts.. :p
I really love this site. Ive had a good look around, and although i still have no clue how to get into the BDSM library, the ppl seem varied and upfront about their feelings which is so cool!
Anyways, i dont have a master/mistress..so im exploring solo at the mo, and enjoying it:) Im a student doing an undergrad degree in Anthropolgy- that's about ppl and cultures, not bones- mostly interested in how other ppl think and live- so into being politically active (liberal left), getting into conversation with random ppl, dance, and being very spur of the moment :D
Ha, sorry for boring you!
Hi little_rose
sounds like you need an usher to get you to the Library door
To enter the Library either got to
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/
and click on Story Library or you can go directly there by going to
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/
feel free to review a story or two the wrters appreciate the feedback and thats all they get for sharing thier time, talents, and imagination.
Welcome
Mad Lews
THE Traveller
09-03-2005, 11:57 AM
Thanks for the welcome, Traveller. Yes, the quote is from "Dick Tracy", although the reason you may not recognize it is because it's from the musical version (so it's Madonna's lyrics). The whole song sums up my feelings about BDSM so well that I couldn't resist taking the name (or keeping the quote for both sites).
I've slowed down on my writing (hence the delay in posting additional chapters of "Yard Work" primarily due to being caught up in one of the Abductor classics (Outlaw & Redhead Sue's story). I can't bring myself to stop reading, which I'm sure you'll understand.
By the way, thank you for the kind comments on my photo. Took a lot of convincing to get DH to agree to let me post it (let alone get him to take it!) so it's nice to get some feedback.
Would love to see photos from the rest of the gang here!
I wasn't aware that the lyrics belonged to Madonna. That explains her playing Breathless M. in the movie. Thanks for the pointer. I loved the damsel in distress scene in that movie, a lot. It was soo... film noir.
Yes, "Outlaw & Redhead Sue's Story" is a classic, indeed. One can't stop reading it ( literally ). Actually, on my half, it was the main inspiration on the story we're writing together with Lin.
You look great in that photo. I hope there'll be more in the future. :)
Breathless
09-03-2005, 12:33 PM
[QUOTE=THE Traveller]I wasn't aware that the lyrics belonged to Madonna. That explains her playing Breathless M. in the movie. {UNQUOTE}
Just to clarify - the song I quote in my signature ("Hanky Panky") and many of the others from "Dick Tracy" were written by Madonna (with Patrick Leonard), but several of the other songs in the show (including my favorites "More" and "Sooner or Later") were written by the most amazing composer/lyricist of all time: Stephen Sondheim.
And NO, I'm not biased in that opinion just because I'm a musical theater actress. LOL!
Thanks for the compliment, Traveller. I'm doing my best to cajole hubby into more photos.
lost innocense
09-03-2005, 02:16 PM
Hi, everyone! Just stopped in to say this. I am new here and always looking to find new and exciting things. I am a 31yr old fem sub. I'm new to this world, but am very happy to be here. Learning lots of exciting ways to find the happiness I have been longing for since I was about 5yrs old. I have 3 children, a hubby, and a girlfriend. Life has been pretty good to us all. I'm excited to get to know you all!
Widget
09-05-2005, 05:17 PM
I am new to this site as well and I have spent a fair amount of time reading around the forums in the last little bit. Funny while I have read the stories in the library for a long time I never went to any other part of this web site until recently.
I am a 36 year old female and I love having fun and laughing. I have always had an interest in BDSM and recently I decided to explore it. I just wanted to say hi and maybe get to know a little about all the people that come here.
Curtsies,
Master_chris
09-06-2005, 01:39 AM
I am new to this site as well and I have spent a fair amount of time reading around the forums in the last little bit. Funny while I have read the stories in the library for a long time I never went to any other part of this web site until recently.
I am a 36 year old female and I love having fun and laughing. I have always had an interest in BDSM and recently I decided to explore it. I just wanted to say hi and maybe get to know a little about all the people that come here.
Curtsies,
welcome to the fourm. I hope that you will enjoy youself and that you will find what you are looking for. :)
Blue_Monday
09-10-2005, 02:59 PM
Here is my, perhaps belated, formal introduction. In the month or so since I registered, I have found the forum to be fun, sexy, intelligent, and friendly, and I'm happy to be a member!
My name is Lisa, I'm 26, and live in a suburb of Chicago (that narrows it down!). I began reading in the story library about 2 years ago. A link to Powerone's website led me to another forum, where I met the love of my life, my best friend, playmate, sub, and Master. Since then, I've been exploring my own fantasies and our fantasies as a couple, while also pursing a degree in psychology and playing part-time stepmom, buddy, and homework tutor to two wonderful little girls.
My interest in BDSM goes back (officially) to my college days, when I stumbled upon bondage.com. I learned the names for all my dark fantasies, but only in the last couple years have I started to talk with real people (mostly online) about my interest.
My unofficial interest in what I now know is BDSM goes back as far as I can remember, to playing "kidnapper" with a little boy at daycare, when we were both 5.
Now! Back to the topics! So much to talk about...
FaithfullyWaitN
09-10-2005, 06:26 PM
Is the the intro forum that is needed so I can have access to the FULL site ?? I've been tryin to get into the Acamedy but it's just not workin Can someoen also direct me to the question and answer form for the area as well. I can't even seem to do a search without it tellin me I'm NOT allowed. I have registered I have logged in from the link sent in e mail. I've got to be making this harder then it is. thanks in advance KayLa Oh I'm in Tennessee and 52. :p
Ranai
09-11-2005, 01:53 AM
Welcome Blue_Monday and FaithfullyWaitN!
FaithfullyWaitN, I think you can just wait until you get the reply email for access. The Academy people do this in their free time, so you merely need a little patience. Please see the thread by Pandora’s Box on the Academy here (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3338) .
Should you have further questions later on, you can send a private message to Pandora’s Box.
For questions or difficulties concerning the Forum and the Story Library, you can post your question, as you have done now, and someone-or-other from among the many members will probably respond, as I have done now. :)
Or you can send a private message to the Administrator of the site, Jinn. See the 'View Forum Leaders' page here (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showgroups.php?) .
Jinn is also the recipient of your notification if you report spam (advertisements).
Or report a post that is problematic (harassment, fighting, rude etc.).
You do this by clicking on the little red triangle in the top right corner of the post. It's only visible when you are logged in.
It opens a window where you can send a note to Jinn on why you find this post problematic.
Have fun, enjoy the Forums and the Academy.
I’m looking forward to see you around.
JanineMarie
09-14-2005, 07:11 PM
A little about myself..I have been pondering BDSM for some time now and don't really know as much as I would like to know..I feel like a little kid in a candy store I dont know what part of it to explore first..I pretty much, from what I have been reading, am a switch. I am 26 and live in San Diego. Anybody who wants to chat or give me some advice please do so.
Kaori-san
09-15-2005, 11:34 AM
Welcome to the site JanineMarie!!
I hope you have a nice time on the site and enjoy yourself :p
I'm sure if you want any advice or information just post in the Knowledge Base or somewhere, everyone's heres always so friendly!
So once again, welcome! :)
Sweetsboi
09-16-2005, 08:40 AM
Welcome to the site JanineMarie!!
I hope you have a nice time on the site and enjoy yourself :p
I'm sure if you want any advice or information just post in the Knowledge Base or somewhere, everyone's heres always so friendly!
So once again, welcome! :)
i also want to welcome JanineMarie to the site, and Kaori-san i love your avatar!
Zelezniy
09-17-2005, 02:00 PM
Greetings ladies and gents. I've been looking for a forum like this for a while. It's nice to find other perverts :D I'm russian-american so you will have to exuse my spelling and grammar mistakes. My ex got me to be more open about my fetishes. I got a few of them :p I'm a switch as my profile states. I'm pretty sure about my role but not positive what I would enjoy more because I don't have much experience. I love talking about sex and I'm looking forward meeting people who enjoy similar kinks.
Kaori-san
09-18-2005, 09:34 AM
i also want to welcome JanineMarie to the site, and Kaori-san i love your avatar!
Thank you!! I like it too :p
drussla
09-20-2005, 06:01 PM
Hi all! I'm new to this site and have been having fun exploring it so far :p everyone seem to be very open and nice, so i'm betting on i'll be have some fun here :cheerl:
not quite sure what to say about me,,,,hmm i'm 19 yrs old f, live in the capitol of iceland where i'm a slut for my master and loving it !
Ranai
09-21-2005, 04:22 AM
Welcome Zelezniy, velkominn drussla.
Enjoy the site. It’s nice to have you here.
sasha
09-23-2005, 03:19 PM
Hi, I am new here and don´t know exactly what it´s all about. I love reading stories that involve the woman (me) being dominated by a strong man (or men). I just want to find out a bit more and know that some of you might want to help me. Thanks!
MistressRaven
09-23-2005, 06:05 PM
I only became a member here yesterday but wanted to say hello to everyone (do not want you people thinking I am rude ;) )
It looks a great site, although I haven't seen a lot of it yet as I have been busy reading the fantasy forum :o lol
I don't want to make myself highly unpopular, but I read something that someone called ManWhore posted ... to quote his words 'Why are so many BDSM girls fat and ugly??' and I read ALL the replies ... and I know most wanted the post to die a death (which was I didn't reply) but introductions are never easy, and I will use his quote to assist with my intro
I worked for a while as a receptionist at a massage parlour. All the girls were between size 8 and size 14. Many times when I answered the phones, I was asked if there were any 'larger women'. This was when I decided to become a professional dominatrix! I am happily married so the sex wasn't appealing (Ok, I lie :p the sex sounded great but hubby wasn't happy hehehe)
I went to www.seriousmistress.com to find someone I could learn from. This site has an extensive list of domme's all over the world - usually with their pictures - and the largest lady I found was a size 16. I am a size 20/22 and I remember thinking 'maybe I am too big to do this' .... How wrong I was!!
(Just for the record - I believe everyone is beautiful - barring my ex husband who is the biggest tosser on the face of this earth :D )
I look forward to getting to know you - and to getting round to reading more posts :)
Raven xx
MistressRaven
09-23-2005, 06:11 PM
In fact ... something has just occured to me ....
My tosser of an ex husband is probably ManWhore :rolleyes:
Ranai
09-24-2005, 11:53 AM
Welcome sasha, nice to have you onboard. Just as on any message board, you can pick and read what you like, and leave aside what holds no interest for you. In your exploration of BDSM, nobody can ever dictate how you are ‘supposed to feel.’ You can find out what appeals to you personally by looking around and trying out and listening inside yourself. When there is something you’d like to contribute here, please post. If you post questions, in reply you’ll probably get all sorts of varying viewpoints. A message board where all contributors speak in uniform unison – that would be something to be truly scared of!
Welcome MistressRaven, enjoy the forum. Please go ahead and share whenever you feel like it: your experiences, skills and opinions, your open questions, fantasies and wishes...
Yeah, as in other places, occasionally here you’ll see the ‘post random blah’ variety of text whose sole purpose is attention-seeking. Fortunately, there are plentiful of contributions here written with genuine interest in the subject matter.
Please jump in at your leisure and explore.
Kaori-san
09-25-2005, 01:01 PM
Welcome everyone -waves- nice to see even more new member appearing all the time :p
timsdale
09-25-2005, 09:40 PM
new as dom or i should say out in the open
hiya guys, just wanted to say hello...im very new to all this...but also extremely curious!! :p
Kaori-san
09-27-2005, 11:15 AM
Hello timsdale -waves-
Hello Kyra - waves- :p
Have a great time on the site, everyone's very nice and Im sure they won't bite if you are too :D
thanks a mill....ill try and be nice and behave!! ;)
Sacred
09-28-2005, 05:15 PM
i have been seeking slaves for 10 years, in the lifestyle for 5, have had up to 5 slaves at one time, have one slave now who has been an valued friend for since 2002, and am always looking too expand O/our tribe ... i look forward to meet others in this realm that have respect for others and don't play mind games (unless it is part of consented play) ... i started out as a slave have trained as a slave and a Domme and look forward to expanding my skills as well as helping others hone theirs. I love the heightened communication and sensory exploration that goes along with BDSM and look forward to joining in and helping out with functions and events nation wide.
thank you for welcoming me into your community ... i look forward to the future
Mz Sacred
WINGTIED
09-28-2005, 11:28 PM
l must thanks to the forum to trigger m facy on bdsm
now the first prolem to me is that where m can seek one stern m dom/SO i will be trained in real life who could u give help
mmbrat
09-30-2005, 10:45 AM
Hi i am trying to find a nice bulletin board where Lifestyle minded people post that i can become friends with. i sure hope this is the place!
ETA a little about myself.... im an owned brat. lol He lives 3 hours from me though, so we dont get together nearly as much as i wish.
My nick is 'Doc' and has been that ever since I can remember.
I am caitlins Dom/husband/lover and friend.
Look forward to meeting you, some i already know.
Fell free to PM me.
See you around.
zadirasub20
09-30-2005, 10:21 PM
Hi Im annie... Im a sub... in a very... well vanillia relationship... im 20 I work a regular retail job... *shrugs* I used to attend a fetish party here in Tacoma WA till a dear friend who hosted the parties passed away unexpetedly this past spring. Uhm... anything else anyone would like to know please feel more than free to ask me.
~Annie~
Caitlin
10-02-2005, 07:46 PM
I am caitlins Dom/husband/lover and friend.
~smiles~
Hi Doc. Nice to join us. ;)
Hi zadirasub20
Master_chris
10-03-2005, 12:13 AM
Hi Im annie... Im a sub... in a very... well vanillia relationship... im 20 I work a regular retail job... *shrugs* I used to attend a fetish party here in Tacoma WA till a dear friend who hosted the parties passed away unexpetedly this past spring. Uhm... anything else anyone would like to know please feel more than free to ask me.
~Annie~
Hi Annie.
I am sorry for you that you are not currenty going to Fetish Partys due to not having a contact/friend. I know the feeling as I have loss contact with a friend who ran a local party in my area. :dunno: But ha you as there say there are most fish in the sea. :)
Jadetiger
10-03-2005, 04:44 AM
My nick is 'Doc' and has been that ever since I can remember.
I am caitlins Dom/husband/lover and friend.
Look forward to meeting you, some i already know.
Fell free to PM me.
See you around.
Gives you a big welcome hug and kiss, :strip1:
Jade
kitten
10-03-2005, 09:40 AM
Hello! i am a sub from New York. i have just recently begun to explore my submissive side. i am 21 and currently a college student. If there is more you wish to leanr about me, just let me know. :)
Mikester
10-03-2005, 10:00 PM
Hi, I'm Mike, Jadetiger's husband. Although my wife has been active in this group for some time, it has taken me some time to explore this part of my sexlife. I'm currently exploring & learning the areas in BDSM to learn more about me and my hot & super sexy "tiger" of a wife :Tasty: . Look forward to chatting with everyone...
Jadetiger
10-04-2005, 10:56 AM
Mikester,
Let me be the first to welcome you Sweet Tea. I hope your exploration and journey can be us closer together in understanding as well as needs.
Love Always,
Your sex kitten, horny little slut, bitch in heat, etc...
P.S. all of the above are apropriate pet names. :D
Donna, Jadetiger's alter ego. ;)
erotic_nibbles
10-06-2005, 06:28 AM
Welcome to all those I've missed in my absence!....pile on in and have some fun...please do post and let us know what you think about life, BDSM, etc.
Welcome Mikester!....woohoo Jadetiger got ya hubby here now...how cool!.......nuggggggggggsssssssssssssss Jadetiger :)
~~nibbles~~
Morgan
10-06-2005, 09:07 AM
Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student and part time phone sex operator. I've been topping my boy since I was 16, for the most part- he's gotten switchy lately too, so that keeps things interesting. I'm a sadistic, masochistic, bisexual geek and there's almost always a cat on my lap. It helps with the whole evil mastermind look. ;)
Looking forward to getting to know (and learn from!) you all. Thanks for being such a great, welcoming community.
Mad Lews
10-06-2005, 05:53 PM
Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student and part time phone sex operator. I've been topping my boy since I was 16, for the most part- he's gotten switchy lately too, so that keeps things interesting. I'm a sadistic, masochistic, bisexual geek and there's almost always a cat on my lap. It helps with the whole evil mastermind look. ;)
Looking forward to getting to know (and learn from!) you all. Thanks for being such a great, welcoming community.
That wouldn't be a bald pussy ala Dr Eviill now would it? :D
Mad Lews
Morgan
10-06-2005, 06:13 PM
That wouldn't be a bald pussy ala Dr Eviill now would it? :D
Mad Lews
Well... One of them is! :p
brenban
10-07-2005, 12:57 AM
I'm a switch checking out the scene. Newly found interest. Not sure what I'm really into yet. Still just looking around. My motto is you only live once. Strictly an online event for me. :)
Bren
saffyre
10-07-2005, 08:50 AM
just wanted to say hello. i am a single female submissive. have been involved in BDSM for 8 yrs on line and in real. most of my experience is on line, but looking for something beyond that.
Caitlin
10-07-2005, 05:53 PM
Hi Mike. Nice to meet you. :)
Yes, you are married to a hot and super sexy woman.
Poor man! You must be exhausted! *hands you a cold ice tea*
No beer! You need your wits alive and functioning properly, being around sexy sassy Jade.
Just an idea or two in tiger management :spank:
Mikester
10-07-2005, 08:11 PM
Thanks, Caitlin. Yes, I'm definately a lucky man to have such a hot & sexy wife. Yep.. No beer, need all my stamina. Anything with caffine is my drink of choice :) Now if I could just figure out how to tame :smackbum: that tiger....
Shaydee Angel
10-08-2005, 01:20 AM
I'm here because someone sent me a link to the story section...which I love by the way. I wandered around the site found this forum and just had to join.
I have always had 'sinful' fantasies. I tried to act on them a few times but was turned away and called a lovely little list of degrading names. Hope this place will help me out in one way or another. Extrememly glad to be here. :)
Breaker291
10-08-2005, 10:21 PM
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.
<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.
Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.
And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...
Hi All,
I am a new Member, I am a 50yr old male from down under,south east Australia, I am a 24/7 slave to my mistress wife, and how this came about is quite an interesting story, I am a ruggered outdoor type Aussie male (no wimp} but a full slave to Mistress. Mistress has had her initial Branded (Tatooed) on my right thigh. she had my nipples piecred and my cock with a Prinse Albert Piecreing, and a piecring and a ring inserted behind my balls ,that has a disc with The letter L on it My nipples have a disc with B on them for Breaker. When at home I am collared My collar reads Slave Breaker Property of Mistress Lynette Slave Breaker
chaish
10-12-2005, 09:17 AM
Hi all - so nice to be amongst people with similar ideas and desires ... this is my first day here and am just looking around, trying to get to know the place.
I am a 34yr/female/sub but am fairly new to all this (small experimenting here and there) that not sure what my place is quite yet - but so looking forward to finding out ...
I guess hoping to get some education, have some fun and make some friends while here -
ok - time for some more exploration - Tally Ho!!
Kaori-san
10-12-2005, 12:39 PM
Welcome to everyone who has joined.. I haven't said welcome for a while :p
Well; have a great time round the site everyone :)
*smiles hello, im new here . where to start , i guess anywhere would help *smiles i have been into the L/s for almost 3 years ..have not much luck in relationships ..its hard to always have one online ..its beginning to be hard on trusting online . anywho ...im single ..a nurse ..live alone ..and my life goal is to seek a controlling Dom . control from another is my desire ..and seek it the best i can . *smiles will that is it for now ..till later *smiles ..kiki
Carnivale Ed
10-17-2005, 05:41 AM
G'day All,
I just thought it polite to come and introduce myself. I only discovered this site a week or so ago, but I'm impressed at how many of you are furiously tapping away at your keyboards to bring such nastiness to life. Bravo! Me? I'm 29, Australian, and hope to contribute a story or two very soon. I'm a freak, a geek, and am rarely ever meek. I also own a rhyming dictionary. Apologies to 'The Simpsons' for appropriating their gag. Look forward to chatting to you all.
CE.
Bluewhisper
10-18-2005, 07:25 PM
I do not at this time want to know exactly where you are in Texas, but I do want to know the general area you are in as I am in Texas too.
I am fair but demanding in your attention. I should think that you will take an opportunity to review the the responses that you have received and respond accordingly. You will respond with a better description of yourself and more particulars so I may determine if you meet my specifications.
You will respond to donken@yahoo.com
I will expect nothing but total submission on your part. If you so desire subjugation then enter into an internet submission first.
*smiles hello, im new here . where to start , i guess anywhere would help *smiles i have been into the L/s for almost 3 years ..have not much luck in relationships ..its hard to always have one online ..its beginning to be hard on trusting online . anywho ...im single ..a nurse ..live alone ..and my life goal is to seek a controlling Dom . control from another is my desire ..and seek it the best i can . *smiles will that is it for now ..till later *smiles ..kiki
MauvaiseKat
10-19-2005, 01:40 PM
I'm not really a new member but I have been gone for a good few months now... It's good to be back!
Kaori-san
10-20-2005, 12:59 PM
I'm not really a new member but I have been gone for a good few months now... It's good to be back!
Welcome back then MauvaiseKat! :D
Switch_Novices
10-24-2005, 10:05 PM
Hello, I am the male (35) in a monogomous married couple tinkering in bdsm. The female (34) is slower to experiment but sincerely interested (we discovered our mutual interest when dating, and I found her previously unused flogger). Both of us have dominant fantasies with submissive undertones, but I (the male) is the only one currently reviewing this forum.
Thank you for your availability.
Kaori-san
10-25-2005, 06:44 AM
Hi and welcome Switch_Novices
Hope you both have a nice time around the site, feel free to post your questions about anything :p Everyone is very friendly so dont worry!
phantasyseeker
10-26-2005, 02:16 AM
Hello, all! I'm a 36-24-36 BDSM model who's in a totally great BDSM relationship with the greatest man I've ever.. *coughs* Okay, okay, dreams and such aside, I'm just a plain ol' 20-year-old girl from a third-world country in Southeast Asia, who also happens to be immensely interested in BDSM, as well as an avid RPer in BDSM MUDs and a closet self-bondage practitioner. Truth be told, I've been around the forums for about 1.5 years or so, just browsing once in a while, never really participating. That will change with time, hopefully :) Anyhow, I've learnt loads from the threads I've read here, gotten lots of enlightenment, and, more importantly, learnt that I'm not alone, and don't deserve a one-way ticket to Timbuktu for my strange fantasies! Thanks so much to all of you for that :)
ronnydesm
10-26-2005, 07:44 AM
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.
<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.
Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.
And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...
Hi,
My name's Ronny and I'm living in Europe.
I can see you are born in the same year as I
I like to be punished as well spank my wife...
Kymeera
10-27-2005, 09:50 AM
Hi. I'm Kymeera, a female, 20 something year old college student.
Looking to learn as much as humanly possible about BSDM.
Always been fascinated by it.
Havent had any down and dirty experieces though.
None that I would consider down and dirty anyways.
I do prefer to be the one in control but, with the right person, I have no problem being submissive.
Also, I prefer to play with males.
But I wouldn't object to having some fun with females.
I want to experience all that the world has to offer instead of ignorantly shutting myself away from anything.
Not to sound like a greedy bitch...but I want it all!!!!!
;)
Hello, I'm female, dominant, bisexual and will probably forget to read replies here. I think that sums my personality up fairly well, hello again.
lostsoul1977
10-28-2005, 10:27 AM
Hi I'm a newbie - never tried anything and don't know exactly what I would like - dream would be to have a dom though a domme wouldn't be rejected lol. I'm wondering about cbt stuff and would be interested in hearing from other subbies as to what they have and what ther Masters/Mistresses have done to them.
That's really all about me......
Lost
r0mantique
10-29-2005, 09:48 AM
Hello, I am a female sub, 33 years'old, french but living in London for few months.
I have some experience but would like to discover further if I find the right male partner.
I like playing but it is more than a game in my mind.
didreamsgreen
10-29-2005, 04:11 PM
Hi, I'm new to the BDSM forums (well, new in never having really gone through them or posted).
I'm pretty inexperienced. Not had much experience with sex in general (yes, amazing in a college studnet). Looking for someone who knows what they're doing to teach me more. Looking for a master (no mistresses at this time please). I'm open to almost anything because I don't know much. Only limit right now is scat. I don't do it. Otherwise willing to try most anything.
Anyone willing to take me on? I'm a big girl, so don't get fantasies that I'm barbie. Older is definitely appreciated. Also, don't like skinny little guys that make me fear that I'm gonna break them. :p
-Diana
ronnydesm
10-30-2005, 04:47 AM
Hello,
I'm living in Belgium (Europe) and I'm looking for a domme, who would like to introduce me in all kinds of BDSM-play (no scat).
I'm not looking for a commercial contact, but would like to meet someone who could fulfill my deepest dreams
bound2crawl
11-02-2005, 01:25 PM
I've just joined and found my way to the introduction thread, so thought I'd say "hello"!
I'm 38ish and I've been a little kinked for as long as I can remember. Not really sure why - no traumatic experiences as a child or anything like that. I've tried ignoring my fantasties and desires on many occasions but, no use.
Some years back I met a lovely lady and, some years later we got married. I didn't tell her about my kink before we were married and I regret that - it wasn't fair on either of us. I opened up to her a year or so into our marriage after another failed attempt at pushing my fantasies into the closet for good. It was a hairy moment. Fortunately, she accepted the fact that I wasn't some monster about to kill her or anything and I'm still very happily married to her.
My wife and I have ventured into the world of bondage together a few times. Nothing heavy, just me tieing her up. I've read quite a bit over the years so have plenty of 'theoretical' experience, just not much practical. My wife enjoys being tied up, as do I, and I'm more than happy to oblige!
Recently though I've been wishing we could take things a little further. I would love to show her some of the books I've read, or bring her to sites like this to introduce her a little more to the lifestyle. Although she enjoys being tied, she still can't shake the thought of it not being 'normal'. That's where we are now, and that's why I've come to this site.
So, if anyone has been in a similar situation and would like to tell me how they handled it I would be very pleased to hear!
Nice to "meet" you all!
Devilkisses
11-03-2005, 12:45 PM
Hello all,
I have been a reading these forums (gasp) about a year and never posted. I was going through some of the older threads and came across a few discussions about users who lurk but never post and the fact that it was bothering a few of those who did regularly. I refrained from posting because I'm awfully shy and am learning, and decided that now is as good a time as any to say hello and introduce myself.
I'm 20 years old, and am looking for others to talk to about my experiences. I have known that I am a submissive for a while now and have been uncomfortable exploring it until last year after finally building up enough trust with someone to express my desires. I live with my boyfriend who is trying very hard to satisfy this craving I have to be dominated, but I am sure that this is something he finds 'abnormal' and it worries him for some reason. We have decided to continue playing and talking to each other about every experience to see where it will take us. Right now I'm just enjoying the ride and having a blast ;)
Anyway I just came on to say hello and to introduce myself. If anyone wants to know more about me just ask, and I'm sure that after taking this step I will continue posting elsewhere on the forums.
erotic_nibbles
11-03-2005, 08:45 PM
I wanted to pop in and say WELCOME! to all the new people :)......I'm so very happy to see you all here..........please do jump in and post where you care to
Just to help out a bit....you might want to take a look at our site's Codes Of Conduct that are listed near the top, on the first page of the General section of the forums.......also for any of you here that are interested in posting a Personal Ad, there is a section specifically for that purpose.....that is in the Community section under Personals
I hope all of you will read and post....we here enjoy hearing about and learning from each others experiences.....or even from each others' questions
I look forward to getting to know you all better on the boards! :)
~~nibbles~~
erotic_nibbles
11-03-2005, 08:50 PM
Hello,
I'm living in Belgium (Europe) and I'm looking for a domme, who would like to introduce me in all kinds of BDSM-play (no scat).
I'm not looking for a commercial contact, but would like to meet someone who could fulfill my deepest dreams
Hi and welcome to the BDSM Library Forums
Just a gentle nudge from me here to help you out....your message would get more attention in the Personals listings........you can find it under the Community section of the boards, it's the last link in that area.......I hope this helps you out :)
~~nibbles~~
Sweetsboi
11-04-2005, 05:55 AM
Greetings to all the new P/people on this list. Devilkiss, I wanted to send you a special welcome since you are only 3 years older then my own daughter. i hope your boyfriend will find his dominate side and learn to enjoy the experince as you are.
my own Wife also saw/and sometimes still sees what i need as a submissive as "abnormal" but She is doing her best to fill my desires with out triggering any of Her buttons. She is even gradually after 8 years learning to use a strap on me and spank me on occasions.
She is growing into Her own as our marriage grows together.
i wish Y/you all luck in Y/your relationships, just remember COMMUNICATION! Always keep the lines of Honest Communication open!
Sincerly
sweetsboi
no-kaar
11-05-2005, 07:20 PM
Well, I was sort of referred here by someone I know if RL. You see, I like to play both roles in regards to BDSM. I only started about a year ago. Now I find I am eager to learn more. I am sort of an information junkie! Anyhow, eventhough I put "switch" in my profile, recently I have been exploring more of the Sub side of things.
I look forward to learning a lot of new things here.
Thanks,
USMC4ME
11-06-2005, 07:10 PM
This is my first post here and so I want to say hi.
geese - its like were all at some kind of AA meeting. "Hi I'm me and I'm a sexacholic" lol
anyway this is great, remind me to thank Al gore for inventing the internet.
I hope to post a story. As soon as I can get some feedback from a some of ya'll. Till then lets all just keep having fun. :) :) :)
Dauntless
11-06-2005, 10:12 PM
I figured I should say hi. I've been reading the stories here for a bit, but I'm not sure how the concepts fit in my life (if at all). I've always been turned on by submissive women. Not in the sense of whips and chains and heavy bondage, but more in the sense of someone who is willing to please in return for unconditional love, much like a pet/owner relationship.
Being only 24, I'm interested in talking to other 20-somethings about their experiences, both subs and doms. Also, anyone in the Boston area, I'd like to talk to.
angel_sub
11-08-2005, 04:46 AM
Hello from another newbie.....my Master guided me here..... :cool:
Ed_Grey
11-08-2005, 07:57 AM
Hello from another newbie.....my Master guided me here..... :cool:
Hi gorgeous, glad you could make it.
Nice place this aint it x
angel_sub
11-08-2005, 08:01 AM
the kinda place we've been looking for - for far too long :rolleyes:
Aesop
11-16-2005, 08:43 AM
Me!:) Seriously, I was spoiled rotten as a child and have never fully recovered. My name is Aesop-well, not really; can you imagine how horrible that would have been in school!?!-and I've been lurking around here for a bit. Love the stories and the forums and thinking about joining up at that Academy over yonder. I'm married with three wonderful little brat-I mean kids and work as a part time groundskeeper, part time library clerk, and a full time dad. I'm a busy guy with a wife who's just as busy with her job(s) as I am with mine. Chained up, slapping, kneeling, blindfolded sex is a rarity these days so I come here to get my fix.
Sigh. Resume time:
I've been involved in BDSM for years and the Dominant role is the only one that fits me. And that really works out as my wife is a complete submissive.:D I'm 31, reasonably attractive in an unimpressive way and can't get enough Oreo cookies. I'm not shy and will answer just about any question I'm asked. I also have a condition that doesn't allow me to take myself or anyone else too seriously, which causes trouble from time to time, but I smile a lot.:) I do take some things seriously however; such as the safety of people playing the BDSM way. If I'm welcomed and decide to hang out, you'll see that I can perhaps be even a little too cautious with my advice to folks, but better safe than sorry. Oh, and I wear glasses.
Phew! Glad that's done. Anywho, I'll be around the community, so come say hello.
jenniboo
11-24-2005, 12:07 PM
Well, the introduction thread, here I go. :)
Hi everyone, my name is Jenni and I'm a 23 year old female student of life.
I've identified as submissive pretty much all my life, though I've been too chicken to actually indulge in any playtime other than what I do with myself. If I had a list of things I wanted to do before I died, though, getting into a BDSM relationship (serious or even just casual fun) would be right up there on the top of things.
Right now, I'm currently still a student at University, but I have just one more semester to finish. After that, I don't know what I want to do. I work as a freelance writer and web developer at the moment, which pays the bills most of the time. I'm also looking to get into the fetish photography scene, but really have no idea where to start with things there. I have my website, now I just need to figure out how to get some real live models to pose for me.
Anyway, there I am, me in a constricting little nutshell. :D
.. Jenni
Ranai
11-24-2005, 02:29 PM
Hello to
no-kaar, USMC4ME, Dauntless, angel_sub, Ed_Grey, Aesop, jenniboo!
Please enjoy your time around here, post in the forums wherever you like, maybe write a review or two for authors whose stories you find interesting, have fun (Aesop: find the sweet grapes).
Welcome to all the new members.
Rob'sGurl
12-11-2005, 02:12 AM
Hi I'm Catherine. I'm a 19 year old female submissive that is just starting to get into this lifestyle, I started about a year ago. I'm in a very committed relationship with my Dom, who is not as into this lifestyle as I am, but is slowly becoming more and more interested and willing :-)
Currently I'm attending college, and am considering teaching when I graduate which will be in about another year and a half. Hm......guess thats it
Dick the Slaver
12-11-2005, 02:57 AM
:eek: Hi! I am Dick The Slaver.
This is my first time on the Forum but I have been coming to this site for a few years to read the many stories. I enjoy reading stories about slavery, snuff, torture, and modification.
When this site works properly, I find the search engine easy to use and the story set up also easy to follow. I do not like sites where you have to hunt for different chapters of a story.
Aesop
12-13-2005, 10:40 AM
Welcome RobsGurl and Dick the Slaver. I've only been active here a short time myself, but I thought I'd welcome you folks anyway. Have fun!:D
Sahaqiel
12-13-2005, 05:18 PM
Well, hello there everyone! My name's Sahaqiel and I've been interested in the BDSM lifestyle and culture for a few years now. I'm very dominant, but not really a sadist at all.
I'm currently unattached and not really looking for anyone as my ever-pesky life keeps me from establishing and maintaining any sort of a serious relationship. When the time comes, though, I truly hope I can find the sweet little sub that sets my passion aflame.
I absolutely love this site and have even been inspired to try my hand at writing a few short stories. Nothing worth submitting I'm afraid... but I shall persevere! :D
Good-bye for now, but not forever!
-Sahaqiel
Rabbit1
12-13-2005, 05:40 PM
Welcome to the Forum Sahaqiel
shadow_kitty
12-18-2005, 06:01 PM
Hello everyone, I'm new to the forum. I've been into the lifestyle for, well... I've been interested in it for long. But I'm really in all those things for a year or so...
I'm 18 years old/sub/female/bisexual, I have felt the need to be dominated all my life, my wonderful Master's pet (I call my Master by other name in my native tongue, and I like the word better, because it means "master", "caretaker" and "owner" all in one.).
I also have "normal" relationship with my girlfriend - no D/s, but she has lately been trying to get me acting domme. :)
So yeah, that's about it.
Aesop
12-18-2005, 08:47 PM
Welcome shadow_kitty!:)
Rabbit1
12-19-2005, 07:19 AM
Welcome to BDSM Forums shadow_kitty
NicoWriter
12-27-2005, 07:23 AM
Well, greetings everyone.
I am a young, 19 years old High School Graduate from Finland. My name is Teemu, although I choose to remain silent about my last name when on-line. Probably understandable.
In anycase, I am a curious person and ran across some BDSM ideas perhaps half a year ago. My curiosity kept building, and I kept up in contact with a small BDSM society for a while, who remained on-line to discuss such matters and to roleplay some situations.
I am going to be leaving to the Army within the next January, at the 9th day to be exact.. so I wont be the most active member in the coming months. I'll still try to stay around, and learn of these things more and hopefully to exchange criticism in writing and giving my own texts for evaluation.
Frankly, I'd be curious to finding a submissive person in real life to gain experience in domination.. as a Switch, I might also be willing to submit to learn from another master / mistress.
However, it seems that Finland where I live is quite empty in the matter of people interested in Dominance and Submission. At least I've had difficulties finding a good community here that I might join in and explore these curious kinky ideas and this side of myself.
Rabbit1
12-27-2005, 10:52 AM
Welcome to the forum NicoWriter---
nippletied
01-02-2006, 07:02 PM
Hi everyone. 26 year old female sub/self-bondager from Norway here. Just looking for people to chat to and stuff to do while aboundoned by my bf.
Rabbit1
01-02-2006, 07:04 PM
Hi everyone. 26 year old female sub/self-bondager from Norway here. Just looking for people to chat to and stuff to do while aboundoned by my bf.
Welcome to the forum ---be sure to check out the role play sub forum ---
nippletied
01-02-2006, 08:49 PM
Thanks Rabbit. I will :D
Hotforsubmissivemen
01-03-2006, 11:46 AM
Hello everyone....
41yr old female in California. New to the site and to this lifestyle. Been meandering around the site a few days and thought I should say hello. I prefer the Dominating role and just love the pictures I've seen of our submissive men on this site and their self teachings and such. I am not much of a writer myself but usually try to comment on things I read and see.
Hope everyone had safe and Memorable Holidays wherever you may be.
somewriter
01-03-2006, 01:16 PM
Hi everyone. 26 year old female sub/self-bondager from Norway here. Just looking for people to chat to and stuff to do while aboundoned by my bf.
Welcome! Good to see that you are a self-bondage fan :-)
Rabbit1
01-03-2006, 01:28 PM
Hi Hotforsubmissivemen
Welcome to the forum ---just jump right in and have some fun
Hotforsubmissivemen
01-03-2006, 01:58 PM
Thanks Rabbit1...I sure will
georgia_smith_writer
01-03-2006, 07:18 PM
hey all,
im a 25 year old twisted chick from sydney, australia. i LUV writing fiction, and hope to become a professional writer one day. mainly into power imbalance stuff and developing characters into real people.
Mad Lews
01-03-2006, 09:37 PM
hey all,
im a 25 year old twisted chick from sydney, australia. i LUV writing fiction, and hope to become a professional writer one day. mainly into power imbalance stuff and developing characters into real people.
Welcome georgia_smith_writer
A twisted aussie chick who writes fiction, We could use one of those here. Im looking forward to your stories, and you might take a look at the short take thread (under General Talk) where a number of folk post stories too short for the Library.
Explore and enjoy
Mad Lews
Rabbit1
01-04-2006, 01:24 AM
Welcome to the Forum georgia_smith_writer---have fun and join right in
:wel
santiagodelacruz
01-07-2006, 02:22 PM
Just joined the group and, after having seen the "My Introduction" theme, thought I'd take a moment to say hello.
Hello from Central America. I'm a really old male top -- no hiding that, my age is in my profile. Since it seems that there are many "younger" people (younger is always relative) on the list, I can probably say comfortably that I've been playing for longer than many of you have been alive.
I'm still playing a lot. I have a much younger submissive wife (we're both from the U.S. originally) and that ... what should I say ... inspires me.
I speak English, German, Russian, and Spanish in that order in terms of fluency. I read and write a lot -- in fact, about a year ago I published a book about our adventures here in Central America.
I'm also working on some articles concerned with BDSM, and am planning to post some questions to the group -- first one most likely today -- to help me with my research for the articles.
I'm also planning yet another website devoted to BDSM but I won't be writing about that for another month or so.
Glad to be aboard.
Santiago
freedom37803
01-07-2006, 03:27 PM
Hi everyone. Just wanted to say hi. I love BDSM and to read stories about it.
I'm 26 f from Tennessee in the good ol' USA.
I write poetry and stories and hope one day to be published.
I guess I'm a switch cause my submissiveness or dominence depends on the mood I'm in. Can't wait to dive into all the great stories and meet all the great people!
Rabbit1
01-07-2006, 04:06 PM
Welcome to the forum santiagodelacruz and Freedom---enjoy your self while you are here
:wel
Well, even though I'v already posted a lil bit round the rest of the forum and I thought that I'd say hello here too :)
Well, I'm 22 year old bi sub. I've had Master's in the past, and am currently with my first Mistress, and having a great time too.
I enjoy writing twisted little stories, and will probably submit some to the library soon.... so hello everyone, promise I won't bite :p
DeDomMaster
01-08-2006, 06:25 AM
Howdy mali, howdy freedom37803, and howdy ya'll. I've been reading stories online since the 90s, and on this site since roughly the turn of the century. I've watched with sadness as some of my favourite authors stopped posting or had their stories removed, and that's always struck me as a terrible pity. So I figured I'd do my part to help keep the community alive.
25/M/West Coast USA
Aesop
01-08-2006, 07:12 PM
Welcome mali and DeDom. I hope you enjoy yourselves around here as much as I do.:)
xgin7
01-09-2006, 05:24 PM
hello to everyone! i am new to the forums, i just registered a few weeks ago, but i have been reading stories from the bdsm library for the last 3 years. i'm 38 and live in Los Angeles. probably won't be posting any threads or comments until i get more comfortable. just a makeweight flying thru the void, for now.
Rabbit1
01-09-2006, 05:53 PM
Welcome to the BDSM Forum xgin7---hope you feel comfortable soon as we look forward to all members joining in and meeting new people and having fun
:wel
newsub21
01-13-2006, 01:55 PM
hi :)
Thought I'd better say a quick hello to everyone. I've just joined today, although I have been reading quite a few stories in the library for a while now. I'd better go have a look around and see what trouble I can get myself into here... 0;-)
submissivewife
01-13-2006, 10:07 PM
hi :)
Thought I'd better say a quick hello to everyone. I've just joined today, although I have been reading quite a few stories in the library for a while now. I'd better go have a look around and see what trouble I can get myself into here... 0;-)
Hello Newsub21,
Welcome to the forum! Take a look around and try to stay out of too much trouble. I try but it seems to find me.:rolleyes: Anyway, have a good time.
Rabbit1
01-14-2006, 04:25 PM
Welcome newsub21----Enjoy yourself here ---get into trouble if you like ---be sure to look thru our knowledge base forum if you have any questions for our masters or mistresses.
:wel :ra
Ozme52
01-16-2006, 10:50 PM
Greetings All.
I stumbled across the site recently. I've been looking for an active bdsm forum. I'm hoping this will be a place I can enjoy. Maybe find a kindred soul.
submissivewife
01-17-2006, 08:54 AM
Greetings All.
I stumbled across the site recently. I've been looking for an active bdsm forum. I'm hoping this will be a place I can enjoy. Maybe find a kindred soul.
:wel I am sure you will enjoy it around here. We are glad you could join. Look around I am sure you will find something you will enjoy
Aesop
01-17-2006, 09:11 AM
Howdy Ozme. I love the sig.:wel
Ozme52
01-17-2006, 10:54 PM
:wel I am sure you will enjoy it around here. We are glad you could join. Look around I am sure you will find something you will enjoy
...and maybe, eventually, someone....:ty
Ozme52
01-17-2006, 10:57 PM
Howdy Ozme. I love the sig.:wel
:ty
I can tell you things about Peter Pan,
And the Wizard of Oz?
There's a dirty old man!!
-- Tom Lehrer
Greetings.
I'm a Daddy to a Little Girl, and I joined for inspiration and learning. I will not be able to post often, but it is important to intoroduce oneself when one is conversing, even in an internet forum.
I look forward to reading and considering, and enriching my skills to love and protect and discipline my headstrong Little Girl.
Thank you,
Grim
Rabbit1
01-18-2006, 02:42 AM
Welcome to the Forum Grim---if you have any problems or questions ---please contact me or one of the Moderators ---we will be happy to help :wel
:ra
submissivewife
01-18-2006, 05:39 AM
Greetings.
I'm a Daddy to a Little Girl, and I joined for inspiration and learning. I will not be able to post often, but it is important to intoroduce oneself when one is conversing, even in an internet forum.
I look forward to reading and considering, and enriching my skills to love and protect and discipline my headstrong Little Girl.
Thank you,
Grim
:welcomebo and Hello Grim,
Hope you find what you are looking for here at the forums.
Green
01-18-2006, 06:44 AM
Hi.
I've already been given help from submissivewife around the site, and thanks again, it was very helpful. =)
I'm new here, and I've put a post up under ''Personals'' if any of you are curious about a description of sorts.
I need guidance!
- Green -
Aesop
01-18-2006, 09:12 AM
Hi Grim and Green. :)
Hi.
I've already been given help from submissivewife around the site, and thanks again, it was very helpful. =)
I'm new here, and I've put a post up under ''Personals'' if any of you are curious about a description of sorts.
I need guidance!
- Green -
We have a lot of experienced people 'round here so ask away. I'm sure you'll get your questions answered.:wel
Green
01-18-2006, 09:33 AM
Hi Grim and Green. :)
We have a lot of experienced people 'round here so ask away. I'm sure you'll get your questions answered.:wel
Thank you, Aesop! =)
eviana
01-20-2006, 10:38 PM
Hello everyone. As a new member to the forums I thought I would introduce myself even though I am not sure how much posting I will actually do. I have been a visitor to the library for the last 2 years and decided to join the forums when I stumbled on them by accident. I have found so many of the postings interesting and informative.
I have been interested in BDSM most of my adult life but it has only been within the last two years that I was able to do something about it. That was when I met my first Dom and I knew I had finally found what I had spent a lifetime looking for.
Sixteen months ago I met the man who would become my much adored Master. We have just celebrated the first anniversary of my collaring. It took a long time for me to get where I am today but I finally have a lifestyle and a relationship that fulfills all my needs.
submissivewife
01-21-2006, 08:22 AM
:welcomebo eviana,
It's great to have you here. Congradulations on your one year collaring celebration. Hopefully there will be many more for you.
If you need anything please let me or one of the other moderators know and we will be happy to help.
subwife
Rabbit1
01-21-2006, 10:32 AM
Welcome eviana, we are glad you decided to join the forum--- if we can help in any way let us know :wel
:ra
MissCaro
01-24-2006, 04:58 PM
Hmm, I thought I'd toddle in and say my hello's and salutations.
I'd MissCaro, simple as that. I've been in the scene for about three years now, two of which were spent exclusively as a sub. Last year or so however, I've found that I've been almost exclusively Dom. Funny how that works! My darling pet (Fiancé) was quite surprised and pleased to find himself collared.
Other than that, I'm a simple little woman who enjoys simple things. Antique books, cartoons, a good bagel and a riding crop. All of life's finer joys. :D I joined mainly because you lot seem like quite the friendly bunch and would be wonders to chat with.
submissivewife
01-24-2006, 10:23 PM
:welcomebo Hello MissCaro
Glad you joined! We are a pretty friendly lot. I like it here anyway. Please participate as much as you like, we value all our members input. I am sure you will find much to appease your Domme side. :D
missmarie
01-28-2006, 10:04 AM
New here to the forum, and just a few months of pleasure into the life. I have a handsome fiance', who I share an open relationship with. I like knowing he can be pleased freely. I would say I'm a sub, but exploring being a switch just slightly.
I attended my first 'club' last week while on a rare visit home. It was amazing and more intense than I ever dreamt of. I was lucky to have met a man at the club who was interested in mentoring my fiance' that night. I was the lucky recipient of th education....still coming down from it to be honest.
missmarie
submissivewife
01-28-2006, 10:12 AM
Hello missmarie
:welcomebo
Welcome to the forum!! I am glad you are enjoying your self in the lifestyle. Please share your experiences with us...who knows you might teach us something
Aesop
01-28-2006, 07:00 PM
Hello everyone. As a new member to the forums I thought I would introduce myself even though I am not sure how much posting I will actually do. I have been a visitor to the library for the last 2 years and decided to join the forums when I stumbled on them by accident. I have found so many of the postings interesting and informative.
I have been interested in BDSM most of my adult life but it has only been within the last two years that I was able to do something about it. That was when I met my first Dom and I knew I had finally found what I had spent a lifetime looking for.
Sixteen months ago I met the man who would become my much adored Master. We have just celebrated the first anniversary of my collaring. It took a long time for me to get where I am today but I finally have a lifestyle and a relationship that fulfills all my needs.
That's great eviana! There's nothing like finding that one person, is there?:)
Hmm, I thought I'd toddle in and say my hello's and salutations.
I'd MissCaro, simple as that. I've been in the scene for about three years now, two of which were spent exclusively as a sub. Last year or so however, I've found that I've been almost exclusively Dom. Funny how that works! My darling pet (Fiancé) was quite surprised and pleased to find himself collared.
Other than that, I'm a simple little woman who enjoys simple things. Antique books, cartoons, a good bagel and a riding crop. All of life's finer joys. :D I joined mainly because you lot seem like quite the friendly bunch and would be wonders to chat with.
Howdy MissCaro. Feel free to jump on in anywhere you like. :D
New here to the forum, and just a few months of pleasure into the life. I have a handsome fiance', who I share an open relationship with. I like knowing he can be pleased freely. I would say I'm a sub, but exploring being a switch just slightly.
I attended my first 'club' last week while on a rare visit home. It was amazing and more intense than I ever dreamt of. I was lucky to have met a man at the club who was interested in mentoring my fiance' that night. I was the lucky recipient of th education....still coming down from it to be honest.
missmarie
Sounds like a great experience missmarie. Glad to you have you with us.
:wel :wel :wel :wel :wel :wel :wel
Rabbit1
01-29-2006, 06:02 AM
Welcome to all ---Glad you joined the forum ----just jump right in we don't bite much ---well maybe Aesop does ---but he has had his shots---lol
have fun that is the whole purpose of the forum and meet new people
:ra
Aesop
01-29-2006, 07:26 AM
Welcome to all ---Glad you joined the forum ----just jump right in we don't bite much ---well maybe Aesop does ---but he has had his shots---lol
have fun that is the whole purpose of the forum and meet new people
:ra
Hey now-I only bite when asked. ;)
sujet
01-30-2006, 12:49 PM
As I have been trolling the library on and off for about 3 years, felt it was high time I brought myself over and joined the forums.
A little about me:
I have been in the life since my early 20's, about 20 years worth now. My partner of the past 5 years and I are mostly off then on as of the past few years. Which leaves me kind of "out there". More due to family responsibilties than lack of wanting that is for sure! We hope to pick up soon, as we have teenagers getting ready to leave home in the near future... *tosses confetti*. In the meantime, I took to writing to feed that part of me that feels the urgency of submission to be fulfilled. *sigh*
Anyway, what got me started was the a guy I used to chit chat to on Yahoo... one thing led to another and I started writing a little story that ended up being 96 pages in a word document within two weeks. A few have read it and like it, even say it is good writing, but while my commitance to finding out how good keeps me from moving forward and submitting it anywhere, it sits collecting cobwebs on my harddrive as I play correction here and there while adding or changing something I don't like within the text. The past few weeks I have felt that need to write move in on me again, which brought me to BDSM Libraries to check out what was new in there to maybe motive me a little more. I noticed some changes have taken place since my last visit some months ago and decided to come visit over here.
So, here I am. Need more, YELL I babble well!
Ravyn1969
01-31-2006, 01:03 AM
Greetings,
I hope I will soon know enough to make intelligent posts, until then I'll settle for intelligent questions...LOL
I'm 36, and just now realizing that my sick little fantasies may be more vanilla than I thought. :-) I am hoping to make a few friends and learn a lot, especially about D/s. I am hoping to incorporate the essence of D/s into my stable marriage, as my hubby is the most wonderful and supportive man, and has pledged to try anything and everything my sick little heart can dream up.
Isn't that great? And he's curious too, so hopefully we'll learn together.
I am primarily assertive IRL, and enjoy entertaining the thought of surrendering to my Lord and Husband. And I am also intersted in safe bondage, mild pain, and some things darker still that I'm afraid to reveal just yet.
The anonymity (sp?) of the net has been a boon, because I was taught as achild that sex was bad bad bad, and we don't ever discuss it, so being open with my hubby could have been a real painful experience.
Well, I do have a tendency to ramble, I guess I should shush for now.
Hope to hear from you all!
subravyn
Ravyn1969
01-31-2006, 01:45 AM
OOPS_ I was already up there, didn't mean to send 2x, sorry!
Aesop
01-31-2006, 05:18 AM
Howdy sujet. Glad you decided to come join the fun. I'd love to take a look at your story if you're open to sharing it.:)
Welcome Raven! Congratulations on taking those first steps toward what you need. We have a lot of good people here that can answer many of your questions. Take your time and get to know the place and the people-we're a supportive group-and try to remember that those darker fantasies may not seem so odd to the us.:)
:wel :wel :wel :wel :wel :wel :wel :wel
submissivewife
01-31-2006, 07:44 PM
Welcome to all ---Glad you joined the forum ----just jump right in we don't bite much ---well maybe Aesop does ---but he has had his shots---lol
have fun that is the whole purpose of the forum and meet new people
:ra
Are the shot records on file? :D
submissivewife
01-31-2006, 07:47 PM
:welcomebo Welcome sujet and Ravyn1969 hope you enjoy yourselves here!
Aesop
01-31-2006, 08:21 PM
Are the shot records on file? :D
Why? Interested in a bite?:p
Rabbit1
02-01-2006, 03:44 AM
Are the shot records on file? :D
yes you do not think I would let the fox around a old rabbit like me with out a record of shots----lol
:ra