I'm an older black man, been around and seen and done quite a lot. I'm in an open relationship with a submissive.
I like women with spirit and intelligence, not meek doormats. Submissive is beautiful, but only if you like and desire it, not if you're just giving in, that's no fun. I'm down with a lot of kink, but also enjoy wit and candor, conversations that flow organically along divergent paths, and hearing wild stories.