Lala
Registered User

Age

37

About Lala

BDSM Role:

Mostly sub-switch

Gender:

Female

Status:

Single

BDSM Interests:

Answered in the "What" section below...

A Bit About Yourself:

As a child, my mother made sure I knew the foundation for a well-written report of any kind. The six questions as to who, what, when, where, how, and why should always be answered and as clearly as possible. Since a profile is a report of sorts as to who it is you’ve been intrigued by visually, I feel the need to utilize my mother’s teachings in my attempt to provide the best initial representation of myself, although in reality the full story can never be told…

Who - Who is this Lala chick?
I am a young, nurturing, loyal, random, sarcastic, creative, rebellious, mischievous, artistically driven woman still finding her place in the world. I am inherently self contradictory—my mind is rarely made up. I am very intelligent but not very wise. I am not as naïve as I once was, but I still try to give most people/situations the benefit of the doubt. I trust no one, but have a very strong desire to. I am a romantic but hate admitting it. I am a poet yet have a hard time articulating myself. I am many different things, yet want very little in life for I am simple. I am a natural submissive with “switchy” tendencies. Before anything, I love to laugh and make people laugh. Long story short, I am full of many types of awesome.

How - How did Lala come to count herself a participant in the BDSM lifestyle?
Truth be told, I have always had more “out-of-the-box” fantasies. Even as a pre-teen when I first started having dreams about what “could be”, I knew everyone else around me would frown upon what I thought of in the dark. It wasn’t until I found late-night adult films in my teenage years that I saw I was not alone in my sexual interests, although I still didn’t know a name for it. I kept this as a secret fetish until about 2 years into my [failed] marriage. Things were starting to go downhill at this time. I spent most of the day online, meeting new people all over the world. Since my personality is versatile, I ended up making friends of all sorts. One of these sorts started to include those in the lifestyle. It was from them that I started to realize that there was a whole world built around my “dirty little secret”. I learned what I could, when I could, though never was available enough to take a full part of this wonderful new dynamic I was uncovering bit by bit. After another vanilla relationship had fallen through, I made a decision to dive into what I had been longing for all along. And here I am.

When - When did Lala start on her journey? Or (more importantly) when is her birthday?
-Officially the end of July 2010
-July 9th

Where - Where is Lala now and where does she see herself in the future?
Currently I am in my first year studying in Los Angeles at The American Musical and Dramatic Academy. I am working towards a Bachelors of Performing Arts: Musical Theater, as my career choice is “musical stage actress”. After school, I hope to be able to find a reasonable amount of work on stage whether it is at a local playhouse or touring with a musical. I also want to work towards a business degree, as my ultimate goal is to open my own dinner theater. Besides the professional life, I do crave to have a family of my own, 24/7 D/s included. Although I do have career goals of my own, I do tend to lean towards a 1950’s household lifestyle led by a Daddy-type/ish Dom.

Why - Why is Lala on this site?
Being a lone submissive in a big, bad, BDSM world I obviously have the desire to be owned and collared. Until then however, my primary focus at this time remains on education and friends. I will always have the vanilla side of my life to maintain and thrive in, but as I cannot always share my “darker” side with my ‘nilla friends, I welcome and search out companions within the lifestyle that I can learn from and grow with. I also am always on the lookout for volunteers to go under my rope. I need all the practice I can get, and since I can’t always practice on myself, rope bottoms are needed. Feel free to apply within, although I will say I am picky about whom I tie.

What - What is Lala into?
All the rope you see in my pictures is my work (with the exception of me in the red rope harness, although I can do a self harness too), so obviously shibari/kinbaku is near the top of the list. I also like auralism, consensual non-consent ('rape play' for those who have a vendetta against that term :P), coprolalia, dacryphilia, hair pulling, mild knife play, mind fucks, Daddy/babygirl dynamic (sans age-play), verbal humiliation/degradation, sexy shoes, and voyeurism. I'm mainly curious about experiencing more impact play, cupping, waterboarding (not watersports), and wax play. Of course there are many other things I'm fond of or curious about, but this is just a list of the primary interests.

If you choose to make contact with me, just be respectful. Humor is a plus.

(Bonus goes to people who actually took the time to read all of this)


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Vanilla Interests:

singing; dancing; acting; reading; hanging out with friends; random adventures; chilling at cafes; listening to music

Location:

Compton, CA