Obedience, bondage, throat play, hot wax, clothes pins
A Bit About Yourself:
Out and about I seem vanilla, though still with a bit of an edge. I work in a creative office setting and write and perform music in my spare time. With D/s, I am naturally dominant and definitely well into the kinky zone. I'm not into any of the scenes or clubs, so it's difficult to meet a genuine submissive lover. I also don't make a big production out of it with outfits etc. For me, it's really all about the woman, her body and mind. When I need/want a prop, there are plenty of great ideas/thinkg laying around the house/apartment (and it's also a turn-on to know that my sub will have reminders of our time together in the regular household items I've used with her). I like bondage, obedience/discipline and performance/tasks. Some of the things I would start with might seem plain silly and non-sexual to someone who's not a genuine submissive. But the point of course is that you would follow instructions no matter how silly or awkward you felt (this would be in private -- no risk of public displays or embarrassment). A few past partners have said that I'm very firm yet nurturing and extremely helpful, and that I made them feel safe and more comfortable in pushing out of their comfort zones. I guess that's because I know that the control is actually being given rather than taken, so I appreciate it and respect it.**