Adolescentilism

[Flaming_Redhead]

This is an excerpt from "Different Loving" by Gloria Brame.

Adolescentilist fantasies among heterosexual D&Sers almost always focus on physical discipline......The authority figure is unlikely to assume responsibility in nonerotic matters, and the fantasy is likely of only temporary duration. The roles, without exception, are played for the sake of psychosexual gratification (although there may be no directly sexual activity), and partners revert to egalitarian (or, among lifestylers, top-bottom) roles.

Leather or not, a daddy plays a transformational role in his partner's life and may help shape and improve his partner's self-esteem. Fatherly counsel may include wardrobe selection and social etiquette......The dynamic of the relationship is that a familiar, trustworthy, mature partner initiates a younger partner into adulthood.

The daddy in a leather love affair additionally instructs his boy in submissive service. Daddy-boy also enhances the self-esteem of the daddy who derives considerable pleasure from exerting a positive, loving influence over a trusting partner.

I found myself disagreeing with Mrs. Brame's assessment that this type of age play is primarily a disciplinary roleplay for heterosexuals because I'm a hetero female who has a daddy-girl relationship. In fact, I didn't even know it was a gay thing. I had the impression that "daddy doms" were quite common amongst heteros since I got a few hundred responses to my profile on collarme, which clearly states that I want to be Daddy's girl. Am I mistaken? Do most people really just act it out occasionally and go back to being purely adults as soon as the scene is over? If so, why are there so many doms professing to be daddies? I have a dom who doesn't think it's weird for me to call him Daddy all the time, so how rare could it possibly be? Am I one of very few submissive females who would rather have a loving daddy than a strict master? Your thoughts on this are more than welcome.