I'm sure there are as many answers to this as there are bottoms/subs/slaves. I'm mainly interested in what permanently collared subs and slaves have to say (I identify myself as a slave in training).

Is there such a thing as giving up too much control? Should they have your email and website subscription passwords? Should safe words not be used eventually? Should hard limits be pushed or ignored eventually? Should your Dom/me get to choose your sexual orientation? Once the collar is on do you give up everything or are there still things that should be left private to the slave?

Those are just some of the things I have thought about recently with me about to begin my training in real life. Please don't assume any of these questions are issues in my relationship with my Master. This thread is in no way a reflection of O/our relationship. I just thought it might be a good topic to discuss.