Talking to Aussiegirl the other day, I realised there are a whole bunch of myths out there regarding BDSM & D/s.

Many of which I believed myself, until I began to read things & talk to people.

One of the biggest for me was realising that D/s is not always about physical punishment & 'forcing' one's sub to do things.

Another is that the majority of devotees are following a rigid list of guidelines.

Is there a myth or myths you've believed? Or still believe? Something you wonder if it's true?

As for me, I'm always learning.

Tojo