We say we are into BDSM. Or we enjoy bondage. Or we are 24/7.

Recently I have been assessing what I want in a relationship and have been thinking that BDSM covers a vast range of characteristics. I've had some unfortunate meetings that showed me how wide the range can be.

I am considering writing an essay about a rating sytem or guidance guide for people who would like to express what they want and what is unacceptable.

Im making this up as I go along but I picture a couple who occasionally try bondage to spice up their sex life and on the other end the 24 hours a day, 365 days a year Roman Slavery life where one partner literally has no voice in their own destiny. Life?

If there is any interest in this I will share it.

Would you be willing to share the specifics of your relationships either publically or privately so I can add them into the range?