I'm new, but I read the thread about collaring and wanted to share also.
I met him online, and in-person met last July. He came back in Oct, and I went to him in Nov. (Long dist.r/ship) He asked me to marry back in July, then mentioned something about getting me a collar. At the time I had no idea of what he was talking about, he explained, but no collar was given.

I am moving in with him (across the country) in 3wks, and he said that he has the collar and wants to have it on me -in the airport after I land. Now that I understand what it means, I am really honored and happy! I was feeling very strange about wearing one, as all of my friends and family are strictly vanilla and have no idea of my budding lifestyle choices. So I guess this is the only place I can 'tell the world' how freaking happy I am
Someone asked about a lifestyle wedding in the other thread. What is that exactly?