Hmm... This weekend, I've had a rather trying episode. Recently, a new Domme took me on and I'm striving to be as obedient and well behaved as I can. And so far, I've done everything asked of me, nothing too major etc etc... But this weekend I was away with friends. And she got drunk, messaged me and ordered me to sleep with someone. This was quite confusing and upsetting, and so I said first that I only wanted her in my life. Then she asked if I was disobeying her, so I said I was sorry but I felt that that was a hard limit, and the idea really made me very uncomfortable; at least until we'd discussed it in person. So... she said when i next saw Her I'd be severely punished. Is this... ok? Is it standard for harder limits to be pushed, and to expect repercussions? Hmm... I feel a little like I've disappointed her, but I don't know why she'd ask me to do something like that, especially without explanation... Should I just have done as she told me?