As things happen in my life I can’t help myself to wonder how others handle or would handle the situation(s). My relationship with my Master ended a few days ago, we were together a good amount of time and have accumulated a lot of toys and clothing to use. Now the main thing to me was my collar, obviously He gave me the collar, and we always referred to it as His collar, but in my mind I guess I always figured it was my collar. So he comes over one day and we have a little argument about a lot of things, we sit and talk and decide we are not working out together. So he then starts to gather all of the things he has ever given me that have to do with sex or a BDSM aspect. I wasn’t wearing my collar at this time, I had on the necklace he gave me since he didn’t put my collar on yet, so he goes into my bedroom and takes it off my night stand. He went into my closet and took some of the outfits he or myself bought during our relationship, he took the ropes he keep hidden around my room and under my bed, and he took some of the toys we got while we were together. Now at the time I was kind of in shock and didn’t really think about the fact he was taking all of this stuff. After he left and I sat down and was thinking about it I got pretty pissed. Then I tried to reason with myself why he took the things he did. But then I started to wonder why he wanted to take them, and would I even have wanted to keep everything. So I am wondering how others feel about things like this when they break up? Who gets the collar? Would you even want to keep it? What about all the other toys and fun things? I guess it does depend a lot on the relationship and how the relationship ended and if one wants to remember it by having a collar laying around.