Thought I would give it a whirl, even though I am new here, as it is a very very interesting test. You have to do some soul searching...

For each item, you need to provide two answers:
First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners. I started to do this, but I probably wouldn't do much of this with somebody I didn't know pretty well.

Note any additional information, which might be important for your Dom to know.

There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Experience, Willingness Question or Comments
yes/no NO or 0-5 written in by sub


Abrasion: no 0
Age play: yes 2
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large): no 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no 3
Animal roles: no no
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no? What is it
Asphyxiation: no 2*
Auctioned for charity: no 1
Bathroom use control: no 0
Bestiality: not yet 5 – working on it
Beating (soft): no no
Beating (hard): no no
Blindfolds: yes 3
Being serviced (sexual): no 3
Being bitten: no 2
Breast/chest bondage: no 2
Breath control: yes 3*
Branding: no 3* fantasy turn on but to really do it???
Boot worship: no 1
Bondage (light): yes 5.
Bondage (heavy): no 3* too Gerald’s Game?
Bondage (multi-day): no no
Bondage (public, under clothing): no 0
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 4
Brown showers (scat): no no and again, NO
Cages (locked inside of): no 1*
Caning: no 1 – there is such a thing as too much pain
Catheterization: no no
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): yes no
Chastity belts: no 2
Chauffeuring: no 2
Choking: yes 3*
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 3-4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 3
Clothespins body: no 1
Cock worship: yes 3-4
Collars (worn in private): yes 5
Collars (worn in public): no 2-3 depends on the collar
Competitions (with other Subs): no no
Corsets (wearing): no 1
Cuffs: yes 4
Cuffs (metal): no 2
Cutting: no no
Dilation: no ? What is this
Double penetration: yes 4- 5
Electricity: yes 3*
Enemas: no 1 unless private prep for heavy anal sex
Enforced chastity: no 2
Examinations (physical): no 1
Exercise (forced/required): no 1
Exhibitionism (friends): yes 3
Exhibitionism (strangers): no 4
Eye contact restrictions: no 1
Face slapping: no 2
Fantasy abandonment: no no no no no no
Fantasy rape: yes 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: no 3-4
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no 1-4*
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 3
Fantasy gang-rape: no 3
Fisting (anal): no 2*
Fisting (vaginal): yes 3
Flogging: yes 4
Following hand signals: no 0
Following orders: yes 4 depends
Foot worship: no 2
Forced dressing: no 2
Forced homosexuality: no 0 not forced,.
Forced masturbation: no 3
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): no 2-5 depends on who, I guess.
Forced servitude: no 2
Full head hoods: no no
Gags (cloth): yes no
Gags (penis shaped): no no
Gags (rubber): yes no
Gags (tape): yes no
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): yes 1 – to a man not a dom
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): no no
Given away to another Domme (perm): no no
Golden showers: yes 4
Greetings rituals: no ? again what is this
Hairbrush spankings: YES 1 - had too many as a child
Hair pulling: no 2
Hand jobs (giving): yes 3
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): no no
Harnessing (leather): no 2
Harnessing (rope): no 3-4
Having food chosen for you: no 2
Having clothing chosen for you: no 2
Head (giving cunnilingus): no 3
Head (giving fellatio): yes 5
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 5
High heel worship: no 1
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 2
Hot oils (on genitals): no 2
Hot waxing: yes 2
Housework (doing): yes 1 do enough already
Human puppy dog: no no
Humiliation (private): yes no
Ice cubes: yes 3
Infantilism: no no
Initiation rites: no 0
Injections: no no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 3
Interrogations: no 1
Kidnapping: yes 3
Kneeling: yes 2
Leather clothing: no no
restraints chains: yes 2
restraints leather: no 2
restraints rope: yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: no no
Licking (non-sexual): no 1
Manacles & Irons: no 2
Manicures (giving): no 0
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: no 2
Modeling for erotic photos: no 2
Modeling for erotic videos: no 2
Mouth bits: no 0
Mummification: no no
Nipple clamps: yes 3-4
Nipple cloths pins: yes 3-4
Nipple weights: no 1-3
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 4-5
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 3
Orgasm control: yes 3
Outdoor scenes: no 2
Outdoor sex: yes 3
Phone sex (serving Dom): yes 5
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 4*
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 2
Piercing (permanent): no 2-5*
Prison scenes: no 2
Pony slave: no no
Public exposure: no 2
Public tasks: no 1
Pussy whipping: yes 5
Pussy worship: no 1-4 Depends
Riding crops: yes 5
Riding the "horse" no ? What is this
Rituals: no 2
Religious scenes: no no
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 1-3
Rubber/latex clothing: no 0
Saran wrapping: no 0
Scratching – getting: no 2
Scratching – giving: no 0
Sensory deprivation: yes 2-5*
Serving as art: no 0
Serving as ashtray: no no
Serving as furniture: no 1
Serving as a maid: no 2
Serving as toilet (scat): no no, oh HELL no (stole that answer, thank you)
Serving as toilet (piss) yes 4*
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 2
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 2.
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 1,
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 1 –
Shaving (body hair): yes, 3-4
Shaving (head hair): no no
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 4
Sleep deprivation: no no
Sleep-sacks: no no
Slutty clothing (private): yes 4
Slutty clothing (public): no 2
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: no 1
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 4 never been to one, so I have no clue
Spanking pleasure: yes 5
Spandex clothing: no 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 1
Speculums (Anal): no 0
Speculums (vaginal): no 2
Spreader bars: no 3-4
Standing in corner: yes 2
Stocks (adjustable): no 2
Stocks (fixed): no 2
Straight jackets: yes 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 2
Strapping (full body beating): - no 2
Suspension (upright); no 2 -4
Suspension (inverted): no 2
Suspension (horizontal): no 3-4
Supplying new partners for Dom: no 0
Swallowing semen: yes 5
Swallowing urine: yes 4*
Swapping (with one other couple): no 2-4
Swinging (multiple couples): no 2
Tattooing: no 1
Teasing: no no
Tickling: yes no
Triple penetration: no 2
Triple penetration by 3 males: no 2
Uniforms: no 1
Vaginal dildo: yes 5
Verbal humiliation: yes no
Vibrator on genitals: yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): no 1
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 1-5
Video (watching others): no 0
Video (recordings of you): not yet, working on it 1-4*
Water torture: no 0
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 0
Whipping: no 2,
Wooden paddles: yes 3,
Wrestling: no 2