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    maddie's task jar

    As some of you know, I've always said I'm more into bondage than D/s. However, we do dabble in D/s a bit and I'd like to see us go a bit further with it. Not 24/7, just make it a little bit more of our daily lives.

    To that end, I've decided to create what I'm calling my task jar. And that's where y'all come in, I hope.

    I'm looking for suggestions of tasks. Simple ones, mostly, but some that would challenge me, of course, as well as a few rewards. Things I've thought of, to give you an idea:

    * alphabetizing the CDs.
    * household chores that I don't like, done under particular guidelines (like certain clothing or shoes)
    * writing tasks

    I hope y'all can help me fill my task jar with interesting ideas!

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    *weg* I'll be back here...starting to discover my domly side, lol. I hope your jar will never be empty from now on.

    YAY...tasking maddie time!!!
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    *stroking my goatee with an evil grin*

    I shall think of many things for you to do, my dear.

    muwahahahahahahahahaha

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    Just remember. I'm a nice person and y'all like me.

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    oh maddie,

    You've opened Pandora's Box. i think this is going to be fun

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    - write a paper on the wonders of sheep..

    *wanders off whistling*
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    subby sheep to a domly duckie *giggles*

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    I read in a story once about a sub that would present her Master with the daily mail... kneeling, with the mail between her teeth. Simple, but the image stuck with me.

    I have a feeling this thread will get busy.
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    maddie,

    I have a couple of suggestions that I thought I would throw out there...

    add the number of days allowed to complete the task -- some could be immediate, some could be three, etc. Of course, the days assigned to complete the task would be left up to maddie's H, of course.

    add a punishment jar, so if a task was not completed on time, or as prescribed, a random punishment could be drawn -- this could come up with a punishment not quite suiting the 'crime' so to speak -- but might add some incentive to do the tasks properly...

    just suggestions...so, feel free to use or not.

    Hope your task jar runneth over! :-)

    Woogsbie

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    Excellent ideas, Woogsbie. Thanks!

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    oh boy - you certainly are a brave one, aren't you?
    LOL

    i'll be watching this thread with all kinds of interest!

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    Quote Originally Posted by maddie
    * alphabetizing the CDs.
    That one's a bitch!
    Thou art my seventh angel squirming
    'Neath the forked tongue of the Beast...

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    Task? Did someone say task?

    Here's a suggestion:

    High heels, thong, garter belt and stockings for clothes.

    A feather duster.

    Your task would be to dust the house, paying special attention to detailed places like say oh...the blinds, in an alloted time. You and your husband could negotiate how long.

    Your reward for doing it in the time limit could be a sexual favor from your husband or a foot rub or back rub...

    Your punishment could be having to do another chore you don't like or a spanking or spending the rest of the day wearing what you are wearing....

    There you go maddie. I hope this helps you out. If it does don't be shy about telling us alllll about it.
    Remember yourselves.


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    Here's a few helpful ones.

    1) Sorting through that drawer in the kitchen where all the junk that might one day be useful tend to end up.

    2) Throwing away everything you haven't used in a year, (or arranging to sell for expensive unused things).

    I also suggest having a task that entails reporting performed tasks to the forum, what punishments you got and what clothes you wore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post

    1) Sorting through that drawer in the kitchen where all the junk that might one day be useful tend to end up.
    ...and finding a creative play use for one for of the items.

    Your reward - well you/Hubby playing with it as you suggest.
    Your punishment - not playing with it as you suggest.

    cariad

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    ~giggles~ at the brave maddie

    defrosting the freezer and then packing the food back in order of colour ~smiles~

    The reward could be, do it before all the ice melts and you get to use the ice in play

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    maddie

    If you have a pantry that looks like mine...organize!
    All the canned foods, boxed foods etc

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    I love that idea! *Thinks about all the junk in 3 drawers* and grins

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    1. Make a multi-course dinner for your husband; serve it nude, or in a sexy servant's outfit; play the maid throughout (standing nearby, refilling his drink, removing plates, etc). Reward: you get to eat dinner; Punishment: to bed with none, or have to eat it from a bowl on the floor.

    2. Detail a room (that is, clean completely and thoroughly; under, behind, and around everything) while chained to a heavy object therein. Follow with a 'white glove' inspection. Reward: "Initiate" the now very clean room; Punishment: do it again!


    I'll try to think of more; certainly a fun exercise!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectricBadger View Post
    1. Make a multi-course dinner for your husband; serve it nude, or in a sexy servant's outfit; play the maid throughout (standing nearby, refilling his drink, removing plates, etc). Reward: you get to eat dinner; Punishment: to bed with none, or have to eat it from a bowl on the floor.
    I'm going to have to use this one but she will be naky & I think some guest to enjoy the meal with me (for humiliation). Should make it a little more fun
    NO.... "you son of a bitch" is not a safe word.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Balrog View Post
    I'm going to have to use this one but she will be naky & I think some guest to enjoy the meal with me (for humiliation). Should make it a little more fun
    I'm heading to the mailbox looking for my invitation right now B-rog!
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    Red face

    Quote Originally Posted by ElectricBadger View Post
    2. Detail a room (that is, clean completely and thoroughly; under, behind, and around everything) while chained to a heavy object therein. Follow with a 'white glove' inspection. Reward: "Initiate" the now very clean room; Punishment: do it again!


    I'll try to think of more; certainly a fun exercise!
    *eyes shift towards husband/dom in the next room, formerly of the USMC* maybe that's one *not* to mention..

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    Also, giving backrubs and footrubs is a good task. Especially while he watches football or something else that he enjoys.

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    *Reading the posts in this thread, remembering I am a part of the BDSM Academy here as well, and wondering if I could mayhaps give her some of my tasks to perform as well.*

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    Quote Originally Posted by RickBulow74 View Post
    *Reading the posts in this thread, remembering I am a part of the BDSM Academy here as well, and wondering if I could mayhaps give her some of my tasks to perform as well.*
    What's the BDSM Academy?

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    Well, you could sort out that shoe collection of yours Maddie. *gg*

    Hey, seriously, though, great thread and I'm looking forward to reading all about it. *gg*
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    Lovely thread

    -Cleaning windows in a not so proper outfit
    Around the time your neighbours get home from work.

    Please?

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    Ooooh. I love these ideas! Thank you all so much! I can't wait to see what else comes along...

    After chatting with the lovely and gracious cariad, I have decided that this task jar will be my husband's birthday present. That's October 8th, so I hope that'll prompt some of you to help chip in with suggestions. I'd like to be able to give him a jar stuffed full of ideas.

    Please don't feel the need to limit your suggestions to household tasks, either. Although, I must say I think housework is going to be much more interesting soon.


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    I think Rabbit had better prepare for a surge on the server as suggestions start pouring into this thread.

    cariad

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    something non-domestic... sort of...

    Meet him every day for a week (or whatever time frame is decided) at the door, naked and give him a blow job. If you miss a day then as punishment you are not allowed to orgasm for 2 days.

    Just a thought...
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    "After chatting with the lovely and gracious cariad, I have decided that this task jar will be my husband's birthday present."

    Now that, dear friends, is a good birthday gift.
    Mit diesem Herz hab ich die Macht
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    ein heller Schein am Firmament
    Mein Herz brennt

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