Cum Restriction Support Thread

[Mishka]

I didn't know where to put this, so here it is...



This week I was put on cum restriction for the first time. It's actually not a punishment this time around, but that's hard to explain.

My mistake was that I read a very provacative, beautiful, arousing, sensual (getting worked up just remembering it) story. I told myself to stop and kept reading. Things just flashed in my head and of course, the week I'm not supposed to be thinking these incredibly wonderful thoughts, is when I do and start to get worked up.

The trick is distraction. It must be. So here it is...the cum restriction support thread where we can confess we're getting tempted (too many details would probably not be a good idea) and be brought kicking and screaming (ok, we shouldn't scream, too erotic) back from the temptation. No holding each other down either, also too nice a thought. We need to discuss whatever it will take with the sub for us to truly be turned off.

Don't be mean you members who do not have this discipline.

My fantasies are getting to me...tell me I am not needy, fragile, soft, or...(stop it!)

[kestrel]

My darling sister......we both know how hard it can be once we are restricted. That seems to be the point where we want to explode the most. Of course, everything from something as innocent as a cucumber at the grocery store looks good at this point. ~giggles and blushes~

[Ozme52]

Be glad you're only on restriction and not denial.

(I count the difference on whether or not you are also commanded to masturbate.)

[jeanne]

Cum restriction is evil. Horrible. The spawn of the devil. And I've never even been on it. Just the sound of it makes me cringe. And I won't even mention what Oz did - the "commanded to masturbate" one (see, I can't even write it), that's the epitome, the apex, the pinnacle of evil.

Never, never, never me (please?),
jeanne

[Mishka]

My darling sister......we both know how hard it can be once we are restricted. That seems to be the point where we want to explode the most. Of course, everything from something as innocent as a cucumber at the grocery store looks good at this point. ~giggles and blushes~

Thanks...I'm about to go to sleep with cucumbers on my brain.

[jeanne]

Oh, we need to replace that with something else. Let me think......I started to be funny mean, but I can't do that to you.

Just remind yourself who you're doing it for and how pleased he will be with your success.

[Austerus]

Better than cucumbers in your...whoops, wasn't supposed to be mean. Umm...stay strong! (and remember, I bet you'll be amply rewarded for being good)

[Warbaby1943]

During A CR I think there should always be masturbation to the edge and then forced to remain there for a specified period of time, maybe 5 to 10 minutes to start with. Plus this must be done at least 2 to 3 times a day until the CR is lifted. That way you keep in mind what you are missing. It would be easy to just forget all about cumming if there were nothing to remind you of it. What good would a CR be if you didn't still want to cum? LOL

I do hope this is the kind of help you were looking for. WEG

[tessa]

Cum restriction is evil. Horrible. The spawn of the devil. And I've never even been on it. Just the sound of it makes me cringe. And I won't even mention what Oz did - the "commanded to masturbate" one (see, I can't even write it), that's the epitome, the apex, the pinnacle of evil.

Never, never, never me (please?),
jeanne

Hear, hear! Amen! Same exact sentiment from me!

Get thee away from me, cum restriction/denial/minimalization/anything-that-keeps-it-from-full-access-to-me.

But to help Mishka-lish...

No air-conditioning. If that doesn't turn you off, nothing will.

~huggles~

[cadence]

No air-conditioning. If that doesn't turn you off, nothing will.

Am I the only person in the world who absolutely hates air conditioning?

I would explain why I like being hot, sticky, sweaty and such, and it's just not coming out in that non sexual way I intend it to.

Anyway as for CR, it is simple, pretend that you are not on it.
Have you ever noticed that when you are allowed to frolic with yourself all you want, you don't go overboard, in fact you don't really think about it all that much.
When you are told you can't, of course it's the only thing that occupies your mind.
So make yourself believe that you are not on CR, and you won't feel so tempted and frustrated.

[Rhabbi]

My love,

This CR is only a phase, and will soon pass. I will tell you though that I have rarely seen you as exciting, passionate, and sexy as you are now. I do wish I knew a way to make this easier for you, but the way you get hot and bothered by the smallest thing actually makes me want to make this a more permanent thing.

One thing that has always worked for me is the thought of a swim in an icy cold lake. This also helps to cool me off on those hot summer afternoons.

[tessa]

Am I the only person in the world who absolutely hates air conditioning?

Yes.

[Dorkalicious]

I have to admit CR is much better then CD.......*writhes about* Gah...

[Logic1]

*support*
things is though, that I am in complete agreement with Warbaby.
Ill admit that it turns me on though lol

[margaret]

You mean some of you people actually get off of restriction?

*tries to remember the last free orgasm she had and fails*

Distraction is key. Just don't think about anything (because sooner or later everything is pervertible) - or better yet get sick. Nothing kills libido like a bad cold. But whatever you do, don't have your dominant order you to go through Sir Russell's thread in the erotic photos section and pick out the good ones *fumes*.

And I also hate air conditioning. It's too dang cold!

[nightsilver]

You mean some of you people actually get off of restriction?

*tries to remember the last free orgasm she had and fails*

Distraction is key. Just don't think about anything (because sooner or later everything is pervertible) - or better yet get sick. Nothing kills libido like a bad cold. But whatever you do, don't have your dominant order you to go through Sir Russell's thread in the erotic photos section and pick out the good ones *fumes*.

And I also hate air conditioning. It's too dang cold!

*laughs sadistically*

[cadence]

And I also hate air conditioning. It's too dang cold!

Yay!!! Now I can start a I Hate Air Conditioning club, there may be others.

Maybe Tessa has it wrong, turn on the air conditioning to super high, and let your sensitive parts freeze up a bit.
No feeling, no worries

[margaret]

Unless you happen to like ice applied down there ... wait ... *runs around in circles screaming "Not thinking not thinking not thinking"*

[cadence]

Unless you happen to like ice applied down there ... wait ... *runs around in circles screaming "Not thinking not thinking not thinking"*

lmao, damn I forgot about fun time with ice.

Well unless you are a big time massochist, you can try out my b/f's dumb yet almost could work method:

When you are preoccupied with something and want to stop, bang your head against a wall, really hard, or some other sensitive body part.
You now have to think about your massive headache, or other boo- boo, and why in the hell you would follow the instructions of a smart ass.
It will definately take your mind off of orgasms for a bit.

[Ozme52]

During A CR I think there should always be masturbation to the edge and then forced to remain there for a specified period of time, maybe 5 to 10 minutes to start with. Plus this must be done at least 2 to 3 times a day until the CR is lifted. That way you keep in mind what you are missing. It would be easy to just forget all about cumming if there were nothing to remind you of it. What good would a CR be if you didn't still want to cum? LOL

I do hope this is the kind of help you were looking for. WEG

Because just telling them they can't puts the urge in their mind. It becomes a constant mental irritation that travels to their nipples and then to their genitals. And even if they don't touch... the urge grows and grows and grows.

Then you force them onto denial. Make them touch themselves over and over again. Did I mention the urge grows and grows and grows?

[Ozme52]

Cum restriction is evil. Horrible. The spawn of the devil. And I've never even been on it. Just the sound of it makes me cringe. And I won't even mention what Oz did - the "commanded to masturbate" one (see, I can't even write it), that's the epitome, the apex, the pinnacle of evil.

Never, never, never me (please?),
jeanne

Is that a request I'm detecting?

[Ozme52]

Hear, hear! Amen! Same exact sentiment from me!

Get thee away from me, cum restriction/denial/minimalization/anything-that-keeps-it-from-full-access-to-me.

But to help Mishka-lish...

No air-conditioning. If that doesn't turn you off, nothing will.

~huggles~

Another request?

But tell me tessa, and mishka for that matter... wouldn't that single drip of sweat coursing down your stomach, over your abdomen, sliding over your mons and down between the folds of your vulva, wouldn't that single solitary weighty drop of perspiration gliding over your clit be worse than some nice cool AC blowing and cooling off your hot steamy....

Did I mention? that growing urge?

[Ozme52]

Am I the only person in the world who absolutely hates air conditioning?

I would explain why I like being hot, sticky, sweaty and such, and it's just not coming out in that non sexual way I intend it to.

Anyway as for CR, it is simple, pretend that you are not on it.
Have you ever noticed that when you are allowed to frolic with yourself all you want, you don't go overboard, in fact you don't really think about it all that much.
When you are told you can't, of course it's the only thing that occupies your mind.
So make yourself believe that you are not on CR, and you won't feel so tempted and frustrated.

Posh. Well of course. That's the point of CR. To remind you of your sexuality and sensuality. Constantly remind you. If you pretend you're not on it... you'll miss out on the purpose of it. It's not a punishment. It's a training exercise. I want you to become a sensual being. If you already are... I want more.





Growing.....


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This post officially made me an official sci-fi TV show. One of the 4400.

Can you guess my "special" power. weg

[annie]

Oh Oz... you are SO SO SO cruel... in such a fun evil way! lol

[kestrel]

Thanks...I'm about to go to sleep with cucumbers on my brain.

As long as I can be on the rest of you ~evil lil giggle~

[wingsofanangel]

I remember once when Ocean and I were a D/s online couple I went nearly a month I think it was.

Oh my gosh.. sometimes it was so hard... I would be beyond provoked and then NOTHING... or he would let me see something of my favorites things (him.. ehehe.. and just incase you ladies don't know he is quite fetching)

I remember being in tears because of frustration... but then I learned to get off on NOT getting off... in a mental way. When he said I could I didn't want to.. I wanted to hold off.. push myself.. my limits.. him... Knowing that this was one of the toughest tests I'd go through made it soooo worthwhile...

try to change your mentality on how you view it. It is not easy. I know.

Occasionally I miss those times....

-anya-

[Flaming_Redhead]

Have you ever noticed that when you are allowed to frolic with yourself all you want, you don't go overboard, in fact you don't really think about it all that much. When you are told you can't, of course it's the only thing that occupies your mind. So make yourself believe that you are not on CR, and you won't feel so tempted and frustrated.

Um..speak for yourself! I used to do it several times a day.

You mean some of you people actually get off of restriction?

*tries to remember the last free orgasm she had and fails*

I think I've been on CR since March or April. I can't remember exactly when it started because it wasn't presented to me as actual CR per se. At least, I didn't perceive that was what it was right away. I see VoodooMan fairly regularly, at least once a week unless there's a problem, and he just asked me to save all my cum for him and said he would save all of his for me. Of course, at the time, I didn't realize this was a permanent thing....and that he could make me feel so guilty for getting turned on enough to want to cum by anyone/anything else....PPFFTTTT DAMN DOMS! Oops! SHHHHHHHHHHH I won't say that TOO loud 'cause I'm not on CD. When I see him, he makes sure I cum several times before he does. *nods a lot* I love my Daddy! He's the bestest Daddy in the whole world! *smiles sweetly* I like saving all my cum just for him!

Posh. Well of course. That's the point of CR. To remind you of your sexuality and sensuality. Constantly remind you. If you pretend you're not on it... you'll miss out on the purpose of it. It's not a punishment. It's a training exercise. I want you to become a sensual being. If you already are... I want more

Exactly. He said he wanted me addicted to his cock, and I am. I can't get enough. *mutters something about not getting enough* But it's not too bad 'cause at least I do get it. *smiles brightly*

*wanders off grumbling about evil wizards and bisexual wannabe friends asking for cookies*

[cadence]

So, is any of this actually helping you out Mishka?


This thread makes me kind of glad I don't have a Dom, seeing that I would probably fail at CR, I just don't get it.

*runs off to do "stuff" not involving CR, Denial, or edging!*

[tessa]

Maybe Tessa has it wrong

~sighs~ I'm wrong in so many ways and for so many reasons.

But I refuse to admit to wrongness when it comes to air conditioning.

And Red, I got your cookies.

[Flaming_Redhead]

Cookies? *perks* Well, now I have a reason to come over! *ggls*