How much pain can I take?

[MissConfused]

I know it is easy to humiliate myself but
I would like to find out how much pain I can take
I will be alone so the pain must be self-inflicted

Does anyone have any "practical" ideas of what I can do to find my limits?

[EndlessVoid]

Yes I do, if you are truley intrested. I am a pure Sadist and have many ideas if this worthless pain-slut is interested. Contact Me for further detail fuck-meat.

[MissConfused]

What would you have me do

[subserviant]

get some clothes pins put them on yr nipples ,sticking straigt out not sideways as close to the end of yr nips as u can ,leave them for as long as u can stand ,pull them off dont open them then put them back on if u can stand that yr a better pain slut than me

[cadence]

I'm still of the opinion, you can't really give yourself enough pain with certain things to really know where your threshold lies.

But there are ways to give yourself pain.

Clothes pins are the standard staple, try putting clothespins on your nipples and getting a stack of hardcover books, lie down with your chest on the books.
Make a zipper with clothespins, attach the string of the zipper to a door or any stationary object. Close the door or walk away to pull off the pins.
Or just rip them off.
Use candle wax and pour it on your sensitive parts. I find this hard to do, because I flinch before I do it, so I always miss.

Stick as many ice cubes up your butt as you can. I find that painful.

Wear a bra with sandpaper inside. Maybe not painful, but definately irritating.


And of course the old precautionary, never wear the clothespins longer than fifteen minutes at a time.

Use proper candles.

[DesertDom]

An excellent self pain tolerance test uses an office chair skid mat, the plastic mat with 1000's of sharp points on the bottom to anchor it to a rug.

Turn the mat over so that the points are facing up. Lay down on it anyway that you please or kneel on it (believe me, you won't kneel long), the points will dig into your body everywhere that it makes contact with the mat. Begin to masturbate, watch a porno, get yourself off any way that you can, if you can. Stay on the mat as long as possible. To really test yourself, turn over so that you are on your belly, breasts digging into the mat.


The mat is a very simple, effective punishment device.

[SOUTHERN GENTLEMAN]

Clothes pins on your nips. Then squeese them on. Get on your knees, legs spread, chest on the floor, and ass in the air. Now do as CADENCE said. Ice cubes in your ass, but give them time to melt, staying in this position. When the cubes are melting, add a few more. STAY IN POSITION. Then went the time cums, undo you self, but make it count. Hold out LONGER than possible.
The longer you hang on, the closer YOU cum to fulfilling you desire.

BE SMART, CAREFUL. S G

[~faerie~]

try rubbing a lil tiger balm or ben gay all over your clit, and let it sit for about 10-15 minutes. then try to masturbate.

or if you want more of a challenge, put it up either end.

p.s. sometimes washing it off hurts just as bad

[Mastrovenice]

Use candle wax and pour it on your sensitive parts. I find this hard to do, because I flinch before I do it, so I always miss.

Remember the closer you are to your body the hotter the wax, so start at arms length and move closer for more 'sensation'.

If you have clover clamps, put these on nipples, and/or labia. Add fishing weights until they pull off from the accumulated weight.

[MrDom]

well my fav for my pet is a strap that she made of leather and it doubled. she starts out laying on a bed legs spread and she straps her pussy concerating on the clit for as many as she can. sometime her pain tolornce is different on days but she has gone as much as 200 strikes.

[milflover21]

Electricity is a fantastic way of testing your own endurance. The store at "wired pussy" has some great equipment.

[MissConfused]

DesertDom I love your idea!
My chair sits on just such a mat

[cadence]

Remember the closer you are to your body the hotter the wax, so start at arms length and move closer for more 'sensation'.

Thanks, but I must say, regardless at how far or close I am it still hurts.
Let's just say this, you pour candle wax on the tip of your privates and I'll pour some on the tip of mine, (not my breasts) and see who flinches first.
Or maybe I am wussy, lol



And if you want more pain crawl on uncooked rice, roll around on it, kneel on it and try to masturbate while you kneel on it.

[redneck one]

Cheap, dirty, and safe: 9V battery applied to the labia, tongue, or moist breast.

Large enema (not only painful (when held), but very humilitating)

Surface irritation to the nipples (or clit) (X number of strokes with a stiff brush)

Some people find a butt plug becomes very painful with time, others just find it irritating. Use menthol vasoline.

Alligator clips (from radio shack) or metal binder clips applied to the sensitive areas (inside upper arm besides the more erotic sites.)

Remove your pubic hair with needle nose pliers. Count each hair.

Canning yourself is possable (3/8 or 1/2" dowel from home depot)

Pepper sauce to the nipples or labia (work up on this one- the pain does not go away with washing)

There are some fun tricks involving holding your urine (either because of humiliation, or pain forom electric shock (ie wires in panties which don't make good contact until they get wet)), but I'm told you don't want to do this long term.

Thumbtacks in shoe (you can reduce penetration by poking them through with hard cardboard), with you either walking a long distance or forcing you to stand on your toes, both preferabally in public. A single marble works too, if you can hold it in place.

Wonder if sand in the bra or panties would work (combined with a long run or walk). It is hell on guys.

However, I suspect you could take a lot more if combined with some pleasure. But it would be fun watching you find your limit regardless.

[MissConfused]

An excellent self pain tolerance test uses an office chair skid mat, the plastic mat with 1000's of sharp points on the bottom to anchor it to a rug.

Turn the mat over so that the points are facing up. Lay down on it anyway that you please or kneel on it (believe me, you won't kneel long), the points will dig into your body everywhere that it makes contact with the mat. Begin to masturbate, watch a porno, get yourself off any way that you can, if you can. Stay on the mat as long as possible. To really test yourself, turn over so that you are on your belly, breasts digging into the mat.


The mat is a very simple, effective punishment device.

I felt the bottom of my chair mat
It is going to HURT! YES!
If I can get my husband interested I will do it tonight while he watchs
If not then I will do it tomorrow morning

[MissConfused]

My husband had NO interest in watching me. He did get aroused and fucked me but there is nothing special in that.

So Thursday morning I did your command by myself. I put on a blindfold and tied my ankles together.
I layed belly down and almost rose again. The spikes are too sharp!
I stayed hoping my body would adjust to the pain, it didn't!

I layed on the mat from my chin to my ankles.
The pain is HORRIBLE. I tried to forget about the pain by reaching between my legs legs to rub myself.
I couldn't do it. When I tried to reach between my legs the backs of my arms scratched on the spikes hard enough to cause me to bleed.
Moving my legs to make room for my fingers was excrutiating. I also scratched legs on the spikes.
Finally I decided to just remain still and lay on the spikes for as long as I could.

I was only able to remain on the spikes for twenty minutes. My nipples NEVER became erect or adjusted to the pain, it was just too great.
When I stood up I saw puncture wounds all over my front. None were severe enogh to bleed.
But where I haved moved about, my arms and legs, the spikes had scratched deep enough to draw small lines of blood.

I did this to please DesertDom.
If you wonder if I will do this again the answer is yes.

[tessa]

I'm still of the opinion, you can't really give yourself enough pain with certain things to really know where your threshold lies.

More fact than opinion...in my opinion.

Miss Confused, until you're laying on that spiked mat with a very sadistic Dom's boot on your back, pushing you down onto the spikes until the blood runs and you find yourself in need of your safe word, you will most likely not find your limits. Self-preservation mechanisms usually kick in and prevent a soul from going to such places alone. It's the dynamic and interaction between a Dominant and submissive that helps one realize just where the edge is...and whether one wants to fall off it or not.

Maybe these ideas can start to give you an idea of what type of pain works for you. Have fun and be safe.

[gagged_Louise]

I'd agree with Tessa here, for most of us it doesn't really work to try to strike yourself hard, the way you'd slap another person you were really angry at. Our reflexes militate against it, plus the strangeness of the situation. And another thing, when you're lying bound on a bed, your hands and feet pulled out to the corners, and taking one cruel whip lash after another from an outwardly cold Master, you'll want to go further. Meeting your Dominant's gaze and seeing him do this to you, his painslut, will push you forward because you see that it actually means something to you both. That's the instant bond that's difficult to fully realize if you're doing it all on your own, or even to report about how it felt later.

[oww-that-hurt]

This method might be fun for me (a guy), too. Thanks for the idea.

[DesertDom]

My husband had NO interest in watching me. He did get aroused and fucked me but there is nothing special in that.

So Thursday morning I did your command by myself. I put on a blindfold and tied my ankles together.
I layed belly down and almost rose again. The spikes are too sharp!
I stayed hoping my body would adjust to the pain, it didn't!

I layed on the mat from my chin to my ankles.
The pain is HORRIBLE. I tried to forget about the pain by reaching between my legs legs to rub myself.
I couldn't do it. When I tried to reach between my legs the backs of my arms scratched on the spikes hard enough to cause me to bleed.
Moving my legs to make room for my fingers was excrutiating. I also scratched legs on the spikes.
Finally I decided to just remain still and lay on the spikes for as long as I could.

I was only able to remain on the spikes for twenty minutes. My nipples NEVER became erect or adjusted to the pain, it was just too great.
When I stood up I saw puncture wounds all over my front. None were severe enogh to bleed.
But where I haved moved about, my arms and legs, the spikes had scratched deep enough to draw small lines of blood.

I did this to please DesertDom.
If you wonder if I will do this again the answer is yes.

Confused one,

these mats come in either 2 flavors, one with rounded over points or the very sharp pointy ones. Sounds like yours have the very sharp points. Both have their advantages, the rounded over style mats allow a lot more movements by the sub and can actually cause more pain in the long run with the proper usage. The very sharply pointed mats are almost like the bed of nails found in fiction and can cause a lot of cuts and tears if not used properly. I prefer the former style as it allows a lot more creativity of punishment and more movement by the sub.


Actually surprised that you were able to stay on the mat for 20 minutes.

[DesertDom]

More fact than opinion...in my opinion.

Miss Confused, until you're laying on that spiked mat with a very sadistic Dom's boot on your back, pushing you down onto the spikes until the blood runs and you find yourself in need of your safe word, you will most likely not find your limits. Self-preservation mechanisms usually kick in and prevent a soul from going to such places alone. It's the dynamic and interaction between a Dominant and submissive that helps one realize just where the edge is...and whether one wants to fall off it or not.

Maybe these ideas can start to give you an idea of what type of pain works for you. Have fun and be safe.

Very very true, the confused one will never know how much pain she can truly take on these mats until she is receiving additional punishments from her Dom while attempting to remain absolutely still on one of these mats.

[MissConfused]

clipcrop gave me a suggestion that didn't quite work but I changed his instructions a little and had fun.

Of course I was naked.
I put raw rice kernals into my socks and put them on in the kitchen, OUCH!
I walked to my bedroom and tied on a crotch rope
Then I stood in the shower and squatted down and clasped my hands under me
Finally I peed all over myself! I forgot to tell you I drank a lot of water about an hour earlier

This was FUN???
It hurt my feet, which really hurts, try it
I was embarassed that I peed on myself and the crotch rope. The rope really made a mess.
It was nice to be in the shower so that I could clean up afterwards

[shyslut]

When I met my dom I had never heard or tried anything before. I considered myself a wuss. Having my blood drawn does make me cry lol

first session he paddled and flogged me and then put needles through my nipples. I did not cry. In fact I barely felt it and I was more aroused and happier than I had EVER been.

Since then I have been trying to bring a little bit more of the pain sensations to myself.

One suggestion was hot sauce. I have a different take. Soak your fingers in the hot sauce for 5 minutes. Rinse them off with a little soap. Then masturbate. Trust me even having washed the burn is still plenty strong but does fade. If thats good try masturbating twice in a row or leaving out the soap in the rinsing part.

Figging is good self play. Skinned ginger root put into anus or vagina or rubbed on clit. Intense sensation that can be easily stopped and does not continue. Sensation can also be adjusted by soaking the ginger in water and also wetting yourself with water.

Suggestions about clothes pins are spot on. By myself however I cant really handle it on the nipples. I do clip them to base of clitorus and on my labia. One of my fav things to do is to clip the lips and tie myself open. Holy cow is the orgasm from that :P

Practicing anal stretching is not pain but can def be discomfort if your not used to it. At the same time it is erotic. An inflatable plug in my ass =discomfort=orgasm Also in my case its required since my ass will be required :P

Ive also started playing with sounding. Urethral insertion of sounds. At first kinda scary and uncomfortable and strange sensations. Im addicted to it however. Ive done it 7 times now and it just feels better and better.

[Carpe Coma]

Inflicting pain on yourself to find your tolerance is about like masturbating to understand sex. Not terribly effective. There are so many things that you can't really do to yourself and your frame of mind will be radically different. Something else to consider is that pain tolerance is not fixed. It can and will change a lot from day to day and situation to situation. I understand that you are eager to gain information, however this is one those areas where you can't really know without direct experience.

[burning]

I have been trying to find out how much pain I can take for 31 years and just when I think I know I surprise myself by going beyond my limit .I really hope that one day soon I will know how much I can absorb or maybe there is no limit .Regards to all .Burning

[Pearlgem]

I have been trying to find out how much pain I can take for 31 years and just when I think I know I surprise myself by going beyond my limit .I really hope that one day soon I will know how much I can absorb or maybe there is no limit .Regards to all .Burning

burning, why not share your experience with us, maybe even start a new thread on the subject? Pain can play a large part in the life of a sub and I know there's lot more to the psychology of it than just gritting your teeth and taking it. x x

[fetishdj]

Kneeling on rice for an extended period is very painful. I would have stopped it a long time before I actually did had there not been a Mistress on a webcam telling me to keep kneeling and adding an extra minute every time I moved.

Toothpaste is a less painful but still as irritating equivilent to deep heat/ben gay. It hurts as it dries and then hurts again as you wash it off. Works on nipples and genitals.

However, I agree with the others - to find your limit you will need someone else to monitor the process, telling you to stay in position and not stop. Maybe someone would be willing to webcam session with you?