Quote Originally Posted by ceegee{Benz} View Post
He knows every single sign...movement I make if I am not happy or enjoying what is being given to me. One slightest sign and the Play stops. His pleasure is seeing me enjoying myself....and pleasing him.
This would be the antithesis of what my OP was about, but also I imagine much more common. I there is something counter intuitive in what I am talking about because it requires a head space where she can hate the act but love the situation.

If something doesnt feel right then we talk about it. Most people tend to forget that S&m is not just about pain or trust...it is about commitment AND communication.
This is something I agree with 100%.